I guess I really havent been writing alot lately which is kinda weird for me, but what is there really to write. Plus the things that I wanna write I dont care for people to read I guess. So I kinda feel bad but then again I dont. See Mike was asked to go to LaSalle with his friends and I told him he cant go because the only way he'd be able to is if I go and there is no one in hell I would go so he cant. I feel a little bitchy cause I know he wants to go, but the thing is right now I really dont care. See I dont like his friends, I can only stand a few, and all the ones I hate are going to be there. I wonder if that makes me a bitch. Oh well I have made sacrafices for him many times. Plus those people arent his friends in all reality. Bad influences really...Heh...mine and his 1 year is comming up soon, Im so fucking happy about that though.

Im kinda getting used to not having Elise around which bites! Im going to really hate not having her around! Oh well things change I guess!Im just waiting for when she can come HOME!*KISS & LICK*

So today I went to a concert and saw the guy who sings one of my top FAVORITE songs!!! IM so happy! OMG it was great he was like right fucking there!! OH so hot!!!

AnYwAyS this is the song:

"Give Me Up Again"

Make up your mind take me or leave me
I'll be doing fine with or without you
I'm wasting my time letting you deceive me
The truth is in your eyes but I deny what I see
Time and time again

I let you get back under my skin
I let you break me down again
I let you get close way too close
But I see through it

You gave me that smile and I gave in
And you knew that I would
Time and time again you pulled me in
Just to give me up, gime me up again

What is a dream if it doesn't come true
I believe I'll find love but will it be with you
I never would have thought such a pretty little face could
offer me so much and take all that I had
Well I want it back

I let you get back under my skin
I let you break me down again
I let you get close way too close
But I see through it

You gave me that smile and I gave in
And you knew that I would
Time and time again you pulled me in
Just to give me up, gime me up again

Time and time again you pulled me in
Just to give me up, give me up, give me up


*WINK WINK*

FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK HELL DAMN DICK FUCK ASS...and fuck this isnt helping any i need help and i just need someone to vent to...but no one here really cares. Maybe its cause everyone else has their own fucking problems. I just need someone who loves me...to talk to me im going fucking nuts over here. I want Mike to be OKAY!GOD i cant keep typing fuck this shit fuck it and you all!


Okay sorry over reacted not all of you...

Just the mildly some that really fucking get on my damn nerves that i just want to bitch slap every fucking time their disgusting names are mentioned. Okay this is becomming hateful im going now!

Urmm...lets see I have been hanging out with Dash and Nickie alot. Yay! And I have hung out with Shalon and Tiffany interesting isnt it. Lets see yesturday I went to Mikes to help with his demo car instead we ate and talked to greg. So im helping him with it today. Dont get the wrong idea we arent doing anything I dont want him back. And then I came home and Dash picked me up and then we picked Tiffany up. That was fucking great...then we droped her off and went to Taco Hell. Then went to GOLMERVILLE. I swear its like desereted there....it was creepy. We sat at Tonys house( a friend of Dash's) i like(friendly) this kid he's really nice. Oh and one of Dash's pycho ex's kept calling so Tiffany answerd and yelled at her...then i answered and she just hung up. Then at like 3 she called Dash again and said some shit. How nice life is...heh...and yay the fair is in 2 fucking days! But im going to go now im supposed to be cleaning my room! Laters

*TO ELISE*-I LOVE YOU and think of constantly! There hasnt been day when something we've done doesnt creep into my mind and make me miss you terribly! You bitch i miss you so so so so much.

So its now 1:30 am on thursday...my birthday just got done. Urmm my parents took me out to dinner it was kinda weird cause my family never does anything together unless its to bitch at eachother. I got happy birthdays here and there...Im so fucking sick though which really fucking sucks. And I couldnt see Dash tonight but I spent all the night with him(the 2nd) he was the first person to wish me happy birthday today.That was only cause he was with me till after mignight though lol. Tomorrow we are hanging out and going to the movies which should be really awesome. He makes me happy, but sometimes I wonder about him. He just seems so so nice that he isnt real. Then again I'm not used to guys acting the way he does towards me. Oh and yay! the fair is comming to town soon thats my favorite part of the entire year...I get cotton candy! But I dont feel the best so Im heading out laters!

Wow so last night was the last time i'll see my Elise baby for a whole fucking year! What kinda shit is that...Elise, Nickie, Paul, and I all stayed up till 3'ish then tried to get some sleep but we had to get up at 4:30 for the airport. I swear I'm going to savor that night forever it had to have been one of the best. The song dedicated to last night was "Save Tonight"-Eagle Eye Cherry! I didnt want to cry at the airport cause 1)Im way to sick(Elise's nice parting gift) 2) I think it would have made it harder on Elise 3) Plus it hasnt fully sucken in yet that I wont get to see her for so fucking LONG! Then again I'm so used to close people leaving me that maybe it wont phase me as much as it should. I dont know what Nickie, Paul, and I are going to do without her. Last night sence I wasnt feeling good I was laying in bed and Paul was talking to me and making sure I was alright and Elise came in cause Nickie had fallen asleep and layed on the bed with us...and I was just thinking jeez theres not going to be a time when the three of us will be together again for so long. For some reason I just wanted to hold Elise and never let her go. Shes been there so much for me and Im going to miss her! I mean I dont know what Im going to do. Shes supposed to be there to help me stay strong...and shes not here anymore.*Tears starting* I dont want to fall apart but Im so lost. I know that leaving really made her happy cause she really wanted to go to another country so Im happy for her. But damn, it just really hurts so fucking much. I told her I would write her and send her pics all the time but it still isnt the same. I think we will have to video tape stuff too for her! I hope she has a safe flight and everything goes over smoothly. Thats I'll I can say for now Im going to lay down. Sence Elise was sick Nickie and I both got sick lucky us! Paul hasnt yet but we tried to get him sick! Haha...We'll just have to wait and see what happens. Oh and tomorrow is my Sweet Sixteen...Elise said she was going to try and call, but Im not holding to much hope on in just cause I think she'll be a plan for the whole day. But not like I hold it against her she said happy birthday to me before she left! Well Im done now...bubye

Sence I have my temps I have been driving alot which is so fucking kool I guess. Im sad though, seriously cause Elise is leaving ME!!!And I dont want that at all I love her to death! But tomorrow I get to spend the night with her and Nickie and Paul which should be great fun. And then my birthday is on Wednesday woo-hoo fun there Sweet Sixteen and I have the heart to do NOTHING! Go me! Urrmm so I have been hanging out with this hottie named Dash lately! Hes so great! Hes extreemly nice and so respectable. Plus, his accent is to die for!!! I guess I'll say more later on but thats really all I have to say...! Laters!!!!!!Haha!

So lets see Friday was kool, I got to hang out with a bunch of people that I like and I also got to make up with Jon. That should make Shalon happy I guess. Elise, Shalon, and I went to see Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. OMG I just LOVED that movie! Didnt get to bed till about 4...then my mom woke us up at 9(i had friends stay the night). But I did get a new cell because mine got lost the night before.I dont mind, even though I lost all my numbers this cell is so much koolers!Then yesturday I went to my bf's brothers wedding. It was so damn cute, I started to tear up a bit...kinda lame considering Im not exactly family yet. But it did hurt a bit cause they had to take wedding pictures so I just went and sat in the van for half and hour cause I wasnt sure if they wanted me to be included in them. Then we went bar hopping...now I dont like bars so this wasnt that entertaining for me, plus I wasnt drinking.Cant say Mike didnt look good in his tux though haha. Then the reception was hell cause I only knew the immediate family of his and a few of thier friends so I really didnt have many people to talk to. I guess I dont mind it to much cause I just sat by myself most the time but it did get irritating when I kept getting asked "whats wrong" or when people kept giving me stares like "why are you here". But I did end up making up with Buth too, so it was kool...I guess hes not really that bad of a guy when you get past his asshole'ishness haha. A lot of other shit went on but I dont care to share it I guess. Then we went back to Mikes house I cried for a while then I finally went to sleep and woke up today at 1:00. Came home and am now on the computer fun isnt it? I feel so completly lost today. Im depressed, tired, and confused. So I think after I am done with this Im going to go up stairs and lie down. Urr...the torture.

Well Well Well...Shiters and more Shit. So nothing great and nothing to bad. Dont care to share what i think is sad...haha dont ask and i wont tell. So tonights the night when all is let lose yet tomorrows never comming for those of us who are lost. Dont ask why i just said that cause i dont even know shits just comming in and out of my brain right now. I feel like barfing majorly cause i feel sick to my stomach for no reason at all. Also im confuzzled on things once again. I feel many are trying to play head games with me more or less. I see no point to it but people try. Oh well right? no didnt think so...Urr lost right now...my head is spinning and spinning and it wont stop. Anyways i think im going to stop cause well im rambling right now and thats not to good cause then i will start saying stuff that doesnt need to be said and that might lead to some trouble so i think im done writing for now.

So okay I need to get shit off my chest before I go nuts! I love Mike and I always will...sadly I did this for him. Isnt it odd how if you love someone so much you'd do anything for them? Im trying to move on but its not the same, I just want to be held by him again and to be able to talk and cuddle with him. It makes me feel so insecure not being with him. I know I'm trying to play this off all kool, but I dont want him to know its killing me inside. See I dont think it was the right time in his life for us. He had so much left he needs to do...and I dont want to keep him from that. See I was his crutch...he knew no matter what he would do I would be there. But sometimes thats not a good thing. I figured if I left him he would realize hes doing something wrong, but I guess I didnt matter much to him huh!?! Theres so much I wish I could say to him...but it all seems so fucking pointless. Im not going to let myself cry over this cause Im helping him and thats more important then how I feel. No one can understand how much I miss him everyday. I dont miss some things about him thats for sure, but I do miss alot. Sadly I told him I didnt love him and I didnt miss him, just so he'd go away, so he'd stop hurting and god it kills me. But what I really hate is I know how hes feeling cause I have had it done to me. That makes this all the more painful cause I know how bad it kills someone to just feel it. Its constantly haunting you and it never leaves you...pain that just fucking rips through your body and settles in the core of your heart to torture you till theres nothing left except emptieness. I hate knowing that I'm putting that into him...that I took away so much from him. And I hate knowing it even more when deep down I know I want to be with him. All I ever wanted was for him to go back to school, get a steady job, to stop lying to me, and take care of his drinking problems. I didnt think it was to much to ask considering he said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. But I guess the rest of his life wants no part of me...or I'll be with him again later on. Im going to stop ranting its pointless anyways...

Urmm...Parties fun...Drinking Great...Smoking is really getting up there haha! Wow it was so crazy we went to Taco Bell last night around like 11:30 and there were cars up the ass there. I swear it was like munchie centeral or something! So Mike had to go around with his lies to fucking people and its really starting to piss me the fuck off. Honestly I never knew how damn pathetic he was till now.Oh well not my problem heh...anyways I dont really have much else to write so bubye!

Alots been happening mostly fun stuff Woo-Hoo! Im loving being with Wesley, and honestly I dont care what some of you think about him. He makes me so happy, and doesnt lie to me or sit there calling me a whore when hes drunk. Hes at least a civil drunk unlike Mike. Oh and he doesnt insult my intellegence like Paul does, even though I'm that stupid. But you know Pauls logic is always the best. I think Mike and Paul should just go fuck eachother cause they're both pathetic. See Mike cant be one of those good break ups where he just leaves with dignity, no he has to be a baby'ish and really immature. I cant believe I ever dated him. He's lucky he had at least minimal looks cause nothing else of his is attractive. Could have been cause I was on the rebound. Oh well his pathetic antics arent going to get to me nor Pauls if they cant act their age I'm glad I'm not with either of them.

*MIKE*-Before you start critizing my choice to move on to you should look at yourself cause he's better then you in EVERY way. Hes made me happier in this past week than you did in those 8 months. Has to say something doesnt it. Your fucking pathetic...you should take your fucking loser ass back to school and maybe stop drinking you might be midly descent then but thats a little far fetched all in its self. Oh and if your going to lie to people about me make sure I dont hear it you fucking RETARD! OMG I swear you have to be the stupidest fucking moron in this town. I cant believe I let myself lose friends over your nasty ass. Oh and your right I got over you fucking fast but that doesnt mean Im a "whore". Considering I have only been with 1 guy...and he wasnt paying for sexual favors DUMB ASS!!!

Okay so I know I havent written a journal in 3 days but alot has been going on! First I started hanging out with some guy whos so fucking hott, and hes really nice! At first it was just to keep me entertained for awhile. But not I actually like him. I told him everything this morning when we were at a party! So he knows whats going on...I think he likes me too! Yea...first last night I went to the races delt with a bunch of shit invovling Jons ex. gf and shalon. Fucking cunt's pissing me off...then I went down to the pool hall with a couple of us! Found out that Elise finally broke it off with Nickie(Finally). After that we went to a party it was so much fun! I was the only one that didnt sleep at all. I got a bit tipsy though(heh)...but I'm really glad I went. I had a heart to heart with Jon.Thats Shalons close buddy I guess you could say! And than I got to tell everything to *BLANK*, Im not sure I should say his name considering some of the people that Im sure reads these. Im so glad him and I got to talk about it though! And then I met really kool new people...But something did piss me off. I would like open a drink and then I would go to the bathroom and one of my friends(none of them would confess to it) kept drinking my shit! Im just going to slap one of them! But damn I really needed this! Ohh and it was great we drove to McD's at 5:45 to get breakest while everyone else was sleeping! Fucking I've met Tony before but this time I actually talked to him! Hes such a crazy guy but hes so kool! Okay I guess thats enough about my boringness for one day! Heh! Bubye! OMG I'm TIRED though hehe!

Urgh...just woke up and Im very tired. I kinda want to go to the beach today but theres no way that will happen for many different reasons. Im starting to think I really have no friends what-so-ever. Hrmm that could end up being a bad thing in the long run maybe. Hrmm I dont know if I will even end up going anywhere tonight...latly my body has seemed to be drained of all its energy! I was watching FROM DUSK TILL DAWN last night, I think its such a funny movie! Plus George Clooney is in it and hes fucking HOTT! Hahaha! Okay I'm done now, I might have more to write later though!

Well Elise called me this morning asking if I still wanted to hang out...I say yes cause I'm all tweaking out and shit! Then she totally ditches me after she gets done saying how she wishes she was by me to comfort me bull fucking shit! And she fucking ditches me for Nadia how fucking great is that! Nadia just used her last time and now Elise is going to be her fucking lap dog once again! Just cause the damn bitch doesnt know how to go home Elise is back at her fucking beck and call! Oh well not my problem...Im pretty much done caring about shit. So I'm setting myself up for a change. There are things about me that I love and there are things about me that I hate. I need to fix the things I hate...and I need to do it QUICK!

Mike stoped by to get his stuff...he talked to my dad all I did was went up to my room got his shit handed it to him then came back in here. I didnt say one word to him at all. Then he text me saying," I dont even get a hi or nothing." So I went over it all again with him on the phone maybe this time it clicked in more then the last time. Everytime I talk to him I hate him more...I love him and he'll always have a place in my heart but that doesnt mean I have to be civil with him anymore. Then him sitting there accusing me of dating Paul which Im not. We are just talking again and hung out twice. Woo Hoo and neither times were we alone! Sometimes I just want to hit Mike for being such a tard!

Im not even going to begin to discuss anything about Paul. All thats between him and I at the moment. But there is one thing I have to say to him! I promise to you,just as much as to myself that I'm going to change! *Kiss* And thank you for sticking beside me through EVERYTHING that we both have gone through! If it wasnt for you always being on my ass I prolly wouldnt be attempting(and going to fufill) changing myself. I know I have made many mistakes but hopefully you'll let me make them up to you! I love you dearly!

OMG...All I want is for someone to hold me and tell me it will all be okay. That nothing is going to go wrong and that they will make sure I will be fine. Funny how thats never going to happen. I called Elise to tell her something and I was crying and she didnt even ask me what was wrong...that made me feel like even more shit. Oh well fuck her, I dont need her! Not like anyone cares anyways! Wow I feel so light headed and shit. I just need to rant a bit more! I bet you all get a good laugh when you read these? So much draum, so much of my stupidity? Must keep people very entertained.

YOU KNOW WHAT FUCK YOU ALL YOU THINK YOU SO FUCKING COOL THROWING PAST SHIT INTO MY FACE!!! ITS PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO KEEP ME THE WAY I AM TODAY! I HATE YOU SO FUCKING MUCH I HOPE YOU KNOW THIS! NONE OF YOU CARED YOU ALL TALKED SHIT ABOUT ME LIKE I COULDNT HEAR YOU! YOU ALL WERE MY FRIENDS THEN PERPOSLY HURT ME! I CANT FUCKING TAKE IT OR ANY OF YOU! YOU ALL NEED TO LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE...

*Tears everywhere*

None of you who hurt me will ever understand cause I dont let my hurt show with you. All for very good intentions but Im sick of this! Seriously...you're all pathetic.

*Directed to people...obviously they know who they are*

Last night Elise, Shalon, Hayley, and I went down to market. It was entertaining actually, then Elise had to go home. I got a phone call from 2 old friends that wanted to hang out so the two old friends puls Shalon and Nadia came to my house. Well Nadia drank some of my dads alchol. He noticed but didnt click in that it was any of my friends heh(he just got back from out of state). Shalon and Nadia left around 1'ish kinda, I dont really remember. So Karen, Phil, and I just sat outside till 5:00 in the morning. While we were outside Bowers and Tony were walking the street at 3:00, then stoped and talked to us till after 4! Then they left...Phil and Karen left a lil after 5:30. Then I had to wake up before 9:30 to babysitt...but not as bad as Phil he had to go for his Drivers Licence by 10. Cant wait to find out how he did! Omg it was just so much fun cause I havent hung out with either them in fucking forever and I missed them both so much! And it was just great catching up with them! I might be going down to the pool hall tonight but Im not sure yet...so much to think about and do! It gets crazy sometimes. But I'll I know is I have been really happy latly and I just lovers it so So so much!

Lets see so I sat in the sun for numerous hours for no damn reason! I was bored and no one would swim with me...losers really. I got a banana split though, but it ended up melting before I could eat it all cause MIKE had to fucking keep calling me. Then I ended up spilling it all over my white shirt, needless to say I was pissed. Then I got burnt a bit! Nothing bad though! God I hate sundays! My mom just wanted me to go to the beach with her and my sister and some other people...I hate it when she drags me along places when I know I wont be having any fucking fun! Oh well nothing I can really do about it!

LOL...Last night I went to the races then to the pool hall! Lets see I played pool for like 2 hours and it was actually alot of fun. Cause there wasnt all these loser/gross people at the pool hall last night. I got to play pool with shalon, elise, and matt! It was great and so much fun for some reason. I guess I just got to hang out with friends and actually do something, without having to care! But I ran into Mike when I went to the races which sucked. He didnt talk to me till afterwards...but after 5 mins of him interogating me I got him to leave! Its not that I dont love him nor want to be his friend its just that since we arent dating I DONT want him constantly by me or calling!!! Anyways it was great this guy was hitting on Elise and "ESCORTED" her home...I think it was cute!!! Plus he was a hottie! But all and all I really loved last night...and in a little bit I'm going to the beach to tan, my family seems to think I am to white! Im going to try and get my mom to stop at Culvers so I can get a Banana Split. I have wanted one since fucking Thursday...so my craving doesnt seem to be letting up and I reallys want one! Elise doesnt think its a fitting breakfrest so we just went through all the food groups it has...and its only missing 3 but oh well! I still got my point through haha! Elise just said that I can justify anything, and I have to agree with her! *kiss* Love You Elise!!!

So yes this is about last night but whatever! Yes well I hung out with Elise, Nickie, and Paul. It was fun untill we went to the Pool Hall and Mike we being a dick. Hes still not clicking in that we arent together and wont be again. And more guys hitting me...they just dont know when to give up i guess. Im debating on if i want to leave and go by my cousin for about a week. I think it might be fun! Im going to talk to my parents about it, Im almost going insane here. I dont like having many friends but with that in mind i never have anything to do during the summer really! EeEeP my loserness haha! Man it really sucks Elise will be leaving soon...i dont like that idea! I will miss her way way to much!

This song always reminds me of me...funny isnt it!

To The Moon And Back- Savage Garden
She's taking her time making up the reasons
To justify all the hurt inside
Guess she knows from the smiles and the look in their eyes
Everyone's got a theory about the bitter one
They're saying, "Mama never loved her much"
And, "Daddy never keeps in touch
That's why she shies away from human affection"
But somewhere in a private place
She packs her bags for outer space
And now she's waiting for the right kind of pilot to come
And she'll say to him
She's sayin

Chorus
I would fly to the moon and back if you'll be...
If you'll be my baby
I've Got a ticket for a world where we belong
So would you be my baby?

She can't remember a time when she felt needed
If love was red then she was color blind
All her friends, well they've been tried for treason
And crimes that were never defined
She's saying, "Love is like a barren place,
And reaching out for human faith
It's like a journey I just don't have a map for"
So baby's gonna take a dive and
Push the shift to overdrive
Send a signal that she's hanging
All her hopes on the stars
What a pleasant dream
She's sayin

Chorus

Mama never loved her much
And, Daddy never keeps in touch
That's why she shies away from human affection
But somewhere in a private place
She packs her bags for outer space
And now she's waiting for the right kind of pilot to come
And she'll say to him
She's sayin

Chorusx2