Hey Everybody,

I changed my mind and decided to write entries here rather than on the other website. I'm here all the time anyway and those people reading that I don't want them to read, can anyway. They're all mad at me for so many reasons and it's nothing I can fix.. or in some cases, even caused in the first place.

My brain and emotions are running so fast I can't even function. First I'm feeling independent, then dependent, then alone, then supported, and then hates.. and loved and everything else there is too feel.

At first I thought there was no way in Hell what some people were saying were right. But as the source tells, and other's find out, more agree and I'm beginning to doubt myself in every way. I know I have strong faith but it's an army against a select few. I don't know what to think anymore... And I barely know what to even feel.

Sometimes, faith is telling me to hold on to the things I want so dearly.. and sometimes, it tells me to let go. I want to be with those I truly love, to have the freedom that I can have, and to be able to live without burden. Which in reality, is impossible. So I only ask for a slice of each one, along with strong faith, so I can survive for the next seventy to eighty years.

I admit, I've been going back to my old ways the last few days, which hasn't been really good. The same people that got me out of my old ways are now either pist, gone, or don't really give a shit whether I live or die. I pray I can get through it for those I truly love (and yes, you know who you are.)

I wish "someone" would take me in their arms and just tell me how wrong these people are and that I can have what I dream for. It's something I've been that I've been waiting forever for [not literally forever,] but you get the idea. It's a long story and I don't feel like explaining it.

The good thing is only two years till hopeful freedom and I got a job, which in some cases, can be a good thing. I want to elaborate about some things in particular.. but that's really no one's buisness.

Hey, my friend Jay wrote this for his girlfriend a long time ago. I just thought it was true and so I decided to post it. :) I truly believe this is what love is and when someone says "I love you," everything in the below passage will come true at one time or another *Happy Face*

Love is...
---------
Love is trusting each other with secrets no one else will ever know.
Love is being respectful enough to tell all secrets even if they seem to be hurtful to her.
Knowing that after every fight, when you admit that you knew she was right, she'll love you so much more.
Caring about her so much that you are willing to sacrifice all you have to spend just one more moment with her.
Showing the world how much you love her, no matter who disagrees with you.
Never wondering if you were wrong to choose her because you know in your heart that she is the only person who can ever make you truly happy.
Looking forward to spending the rest of your life with her because you never doubted the decision of being with her.
Feeling that your life is perfect when you have her in your arms.
Pouring your heart out into every kiss you give her.
Doing all the little things for her no matter how trivial they may seem, just for the romantism of doing them.
Seeing that look in her eyes and wanting to tell her everything about how you feel, but returning her gaze knowing all the words known to man could never express your love for or devotion to her.
Kissing away all her fears and holding her to comfort her, letting her know you will never let any harm come to her.
Doing all these things and more for her because of the person she is, not because of what she does or does not have or because of what other people think or say about her.
Doing these things because you know she is the only person for you, and that you can never find anyone to make you feel the way she makes you feel.

Love is so many things I cannot even begin to describe in any language, human or not. So I hope that I can make her understand how I feel through the kisses I give her and the way I hold her in my arms when words cannot express my emotions.

Hey,

Okay I changed my mind (Like I never do that...:-O.) One last entry here on Elftown and yes, this is directed towards one or several individuals in which I will not indicate.

I believe I did something incredibly naïve and very VERY retarded. And no, I haven’t talked to anyone about this or sought council *for those ^blessed^ individual(s) who were wondering.* So yes, this is the full fledged blow of a situation in which I choose to write about because I can’t stand getting angrier every single day and then feeling depressed afterwards because I’m so tired of feeling emotion at all. And no, I am not going to be metaphorical or cover it up like chocolate syrup on a sundae.

For those of you that truly know me, you know why I act the way I do... Moreover, you also know why mentally and emotionally I am the way I am. Some ^blessed^ individual(s) who pretended to give a shit do not, and yet they still pretend they do. It only pisses me off that these people actually think I am stupid enough to fall for their little fraud. I admit I did not know the whole time but every day I learn more and every day, I see my faith in the situation falter because of what I learn.

It’s sad how crude and vulgar some people can be. Sometimes, I wish I did not feel emotion at all, making some situations so much easier. I swear these ^blessed^ individuals see life as black and white, and I full-heartily believe their entitled to their own fucking opinion(s).

But, as the Virgin Mother of Mary as my witness, they will come into something where they cannot make one of those god-damn excuses as to “it’s either this or this.” Because then, who I’m talking about will be the one that will end up suffering. It’s unlike me to be malicious but whenever the people I’m talking about falls into one of those situations, I hope they feel like shit and shut their horrible excuse of a mouth the hell up.

Obviously, the person(s) did not care as they said they did…or they made it EXTREMELY apparent they cared about other people who are supposed to be below you in the “relationship hierarchy” more than you… all they had to say was they didn’t give a shit in the first place. It’s not that hard. Nevertheless, people do crazy stuff because they want things like power, money, sexual favors, etc. These people are incredibly sad and I, along with many others, hope they burn in hell. You may not think it’s you, but look around and smell the coffee, because it very well may be.

I would just like to add that I’m sick as hell defending these people because I don’t wanna believe I’ve made a bad choice. This is where others know better than you, especially if you’re involved. So I will no longer defend, rant, or try to make excuses for these people in which have done some horrible things to me, or other people (if they’re that type.)

I’ve fought for these ^blessed^ individual(s) long enough with nothing in return besides a call or an invitation here and there. I’m sick of being nice, and most of all, I’m sick of being stepped all over. In some cases, these people have ruined what took me years to obtain, in which utterly and totally pisses me off beyond all extent. If I could go back in time, I would use all my strength to kick their ass and confine them until they learn how to be civilized people.

I’m not self-centered, looking for all the sympathy in the world, or want everything in return for so little. I simply want something in which I know what I’m fighting for is right. The more I learn, the more I find what I’m fighting for is worthless and has no means-to-an-end. Unless you are in the situation, you will not know what the fuck I’m talking about and those involved probably won’t read this anyway so I won’t rant any longer

~Angel

On a P.S. note: I know I sound like a total bitch but if you met me in person, you would know that’s only true in some aspects.

Secondly, I HATE that despite how much some people feel, others LOVE to step the fuck all over you and tear what you’ve worked your entire life for to shreds. I sarcastically HOPE these people are happy with themselves and will have all of eternity to live with what they have done to other people. [I know I’m not the saint, but I also know there is far worse than me in this world…]

Hey,

I just wanted to let you guys know that I haven't been writing because I completely broke down tonight...I've been pretending to be somewhat happy and I'm not.. and things have been done that shouldn't have.. and guilt haunts me from months and years ago of horrible things I've done.

Things I've done even as recently as September still haunt me, I mean I know life goes on, but just the image turns my stomach and I start to tear. I just wish those I've hurt know I'm turning a new leaf. I'm far more relaxed with myself than I was even a month ago.. or two.

I've come to realize that it doesn't matter how much you love, or want, or flat out desire beyond all else. The amount of emotion, or the presence doesn't matter what-so-ever if certain things don't occur. Just grr.. it makes me sick to the stomach. I mean, everything a person wants, they shouldn't recieve because that makes them emotionally and mentally weak.

Sometimes, I just wish people could read my mind without me having to tell them what I want. Some people should already know exactly what I want down to the very last detail... I'm the type of person where you can read what I want all over my face, I'm horrible at lying etc.

It just hurts me so much to know that it doesn't matter how much it haunts me or how much an emotion overpowers me or anyone else for that matter.. if it's impossible to pursue. Arg.. most of you would have NO idea what I'm talking about.

So.. I guess I will stop rambling about important nothings and go learn my oral exam and eight words in Español for tomorrow's examens...

Hey,

Just a little something I wrote in my journal...

It was early in the summer. School was about to get out and as I was looking out the window, I realized that everything in this world is so beautiful. The sun was shinning through the thin white clouds, the trees were growing-green, and the fresh grass smell was coming through the window.

But, that is not what consumed my mind. For there were other important and difficult things within my life. I had a math book in front of me while I was sitting at a cramped desk in a boiling room with 24 other bodies. But, all I could think about was her, Anita. She was only the length of two desks in front of me and one desk to the right. Such a small distance for someone that was so complex, someone in which I had so much to say, and most of all someone I loved so much.

Anita was perfect, she had flowing brown hair, seductive blue eyes, and a light-tan complection that was to die for. She was the most beautiful creature on the face of the earth and anyone who knew her, was incrediebly blessed just for having her in their life. She was intelligent, caring, generous and most of all... selfless. She wasn't like some prep or freak, she was an Angel. But her mind, was clouded. I would have done anything to help her, but I knew in my heart, her happiness was worth more than anything I could give her.

I loved Anita for a very long time and I will always love her. I knew anyone that could have her would be the luckiest man on the face of the earth. I would have treated her like a queen and never betrayed her, because I would have felt so blessed to have someone like Anita in my life. One of the things I loved most about her was that she was so strong. She had been through so much, and yet cared and loved and acted like nothing ever happened and that she had never been hurt. She could face the world and rip it to shreds.

Sometimes I wish I was selfish in my decision and that she would at least know how much pain and sorrow and despair I have gone through, or that I could be her knight on a white horse for all time. But the truth is, I don't want her to feel sorry for me. I don't want her to reject me and make what we have impossible to maintain. I will always love Anita until the day I die, and I swear with the Virgin Mary as my witness, David is the luckiest man on the face of the Earth.

A long time ago, David broke up with Anita because he wasn't ready for commitment anymore. He was scared that he found the wrong person to spend the rest of his life with, and so he left Anita without so much as a phone call. He tore her to shreds and made her suffer in agony for so long..

She would tell me that her heart was torn apart, and that she's the one that did wrong. She wanted to be back with David because she loved him so much and wished that he would call her with the words of comfort that she was loved so very much and that he would take her in his arms to be with him forever. Unfortunately, those words were hard to come by.

I personally did not like David. I thought he allowed Anita to get in way too deep and then let her off the hook. He ALLOWED her to fall in love with him and say that he would love her forever. And he told her everything would be all right and there was nothing in this world that they could not face together. He ALLOWED her to have sex, in which she lost her virginity because she thought he loved her. She was never able to get that back, and that's one of the things she felt so bad about.

Anita felt so bad about a lot of things. She did everything in her power to make him happy, so they could be together in peace and harmony. I watched the entire time, with my tongue tied, knowing that she was happy. I was there for her in her troubles and I knew that being there, was one of the best things of all. It hurt so much to see her hurt and I just wanted to give her a hug and tell her that I loved her and everything would be okay. I was her shoulder to cry on when she was crying so hard, she couldn't stand any longer.

I was so mad at David for not realizing what a blessing he had before. I understood why he broke up with her, but I failed to understand that when he said those things, that I would have said without hesitation, he didn't sick by the meaning of it and work through the hard times, so they could be together.

I'm not saying I'm a saint, or some other Godly creature. I was just a friend when another was in need, and I hope if that what makes Anita happy, that's all I ever want to be. I don't want to be the husband, or the boyfriend, or the friend with benefits, no matter how much I want to be for me. I want to happen what she wants because she's more important than me, and I would protect anything and everything that pertained to her.

I remember one day last year, Anita was at the breaking point, she felt so bad about what happened, she tried to take her own life. I was watching her and it hurt me so much. I comforted her and told her everything would be okay, like I had on so many other occasions. But, this time, she asked me to do something.. something I didn't want to do. All I wanted was to look into her graceful eyes and tell her how much I loved her and would protect her. But she asked me to talk to David, and see what's actually going on.

I couldn't take it any longer, I was so angry that David would treat her that way, I was angry that Anita felt that way, and most of all.. I was angry at myself. I was happy with my decision, but I was angry that I didn't do something for myself once and just tell her how I felt. Oh, I look back at that moment sometimes and wish I just would have called her on the phone and said, Anita.. I love you so much and tell her my story.

Instead, I drove to Davids house and politely knocked on the door. I went to his room and sat in his bean bag chair and placed it in front of the door. I simply started with, ["David, we've been going friends for years and there's a few things I would like to say. I'm not going to let you leave until I get to finish because frankly, your being a cocky son of a bitch and if you don't straighten up your act, you gonna hurt so many that truly don't deserve it."]

At this point, he started to get extremely angry with my and even stood. But then he replied, ["Look, we have been good friends for a long time, and I might as well hear what you have to say. But don't ever call me a cocky son of a bitch again or I'll kill you."]

I was someone fearful of that comment because David was so much bigger than I. I found strength within me from Anita and stood up, and started saying what needed to be said for so long... ["As your friend, I'm seeing you make a horrible decision that could ruin your life...and frankly, I'm fearful that your going to look back and see how much of a god-damn moron you were and you won't know what the fuck to do until the day you die. Again, if you want me to be perfectly honest, I have a confession to make."]

I was so scared to say this in front of David because I knew he would rip into me, but again.. it needed to be said more than anything else ever did between us, ["I've loved Anita for years. And I would do anything to be with her. I think anyone in this world that's with her is the luckiest guy on the face of the Earth. She's so beautiful and kind and everything else good in a person...and she loves you man. She loves you TO DEATH. She would do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING for you without hesitation."]

I started to shake, but I went on, ["Your being a fucking idiot. Your the luckiest guy on the face of the PLANET. Out of six billion other men, your IT. If I was you, I would call her up right now and tell her how much you love her, even if there is life issues getting in the way. She feels like you used her and threw her in the trash. I don't think she deserves that what-so-ever. She's one of the few girls that actually any good anymore. You don't come across one of them every day.. as a matter of fact, a girl like that is RARE. And I don't understand why you would be such an ass to throw that all AWAY."]

I almost started to shed tears as I went on...["Please don't tell Anita how I feel about her. But I beg of you to just call her and tell her how much you care about her. Your wasting your time and energy on other girls that are completely flawed. Please, she feels like you tore her heart out and she loves YOU. She doesn't love ANYONE ELSE. I don't understand why you did that. But you have a chance to fix this and win her back. She's waiting for you to call."]

I handed him the telephone, knowing that I was trashing my life with Anita for her happiness, ["Please David, just make that one phone call, dial those seven numbers because I know you want to. I can see it in your eyes that you love her and regret letting her go. Please, just call her.."]

And he took the phone, called Anita, and they lived happily ever after.

Hey, I was thinking in the car as usual lolz.. as this is what I came up with. I don't mean to talk about anything private that people won't want me to talk about... but I need to write this down lolz.

I Can Guarantee

Despite so much,
I have so many guarantees.
That I mean full-heartidly.
And that I will never take back.
I can guarantee that despite everything,
There will be difficult times.
And I can also tell you, there will be times of paradise.
But I pray to the Lord above,
That we will triumph through the hard times,
And live in paradise forever.
I can guarantee that we will argue.
But I also guarantee we will agree.
But when those times come,
I tell you, we will talk and work things out.
I know at one point or another,
We will want to leave,
But I know that those times,
Are just temporary.
I can completely guarantee,
That I will always have faith.
And that if it ever faulters,
I will find myself triuphing through.
I will always believe,
No matter what happens.
One thing I [can not] guarentee,
Is forever because it simply is impossible.
But I will always be completely devoted.
[But.. right now, if I don't ask you to be mine,
I can guarantee that I will regret it for the rest of my life.]

Hey,

Not that anyone really cares, but lately.. I've been fluctuating a lot mentall and emotionally. Sometimes I'm completely happy, and others... A murderer would be doing a favor to pick me for his next victim. I don't understand life and at this pace, I don't know if I ever will.

[The Fact Is.. I'm LIVING WITHOUT LIVING]

It seems hard to understand, but to some of you, it will make perfect sense :)

Through Rainy Days,
And Cold Winter Nights,
I Am Completely Trapped,
In A Lifeless Life.

My Mind Is Clouded,
And My Emotions Are Decieving.
And I Wish I could Escape,
And Find Some True Meaning.

The Meaning Of LIFE,
The Meaning To Be Happy,
In A Perfect World
That To Me, Is Completely Undeserving.

I'm So Unhappy With Myself,
For What I've Done,
Sometimes I Wish I Could Have,
Went Back, Triumphed, And Won.

I Have Done So Much,
That I Cannot Repair.
But I Pray For Forgiveness,
Of The Lives I've Teared.

I Hope Someday,
That I Will Have A Second Chance,
For That's All I Ask For,
I Simply Ask, To Dance.

I Know I'm Not Perfect,
And I know I Possess Weakness,
But All I Wish For,
Is A Day Of Bliss.

Despite The Twists And Turns,
I Promise To Always Be Loyal,
And I Can Guarentee That,
As Growth is Guarenteed In Rich Soil.

And I Full-Heatidly Promise,
That When I Look Into Your Eyes,
I Will Honestly Be Thankful,
Through Every Day Of My Life.

I Ask God To Please Help Me,
I'm Begging On My Knees,
I Want To Compromise,
My Evil And Worthless Deads.

I Pondered On So Many Things,
That Were Completely Not Worth It,
But Now, I Possess An Inner Strength,
Full Of Intellect And Wit.

I've Changed So Much Within,
Just Thinking About Myself,
And Realizing My Faults,
And Why I Possessed Stealth.

**IT NEEDS WORK LOLZ**

Hey,

I've been thinking a lot these days about some particular things, some I can't even bear to write down or say.. they always lead me to the very same conclusions about everything in my life.

..Death just isn't simple enough is it? A lot of people kill themselves, but it's the only easy way out in which everyone else, but the person suffers. Even the most idiotic mother fucker on this Earth would feel guilty if one was to die because of their actions. And if they don't feel guilty, then they should be tormented and killed.

It's just.. there's a difference between what should happen and what has to happen. Sometimes, people have to suffer because they want something so badly, but what has to happen is the complete opposite. This seems to happen to be a lot, but it doesn't really matter because I would always choose what has to happen. But when it really hits a homerun, I want to happen what I want to happen, not what has to be done. What has to be done is too hard for me to handle. I'm not exactly sure if that's just a lack of faith in myself, or I really couldn't physically handle it. Either way, I'm in something much to deep.

Those two songs before, were way too true. I'm not looking for pitty, I'm looking for SOMETHING to go right.. for once and not turn into hell sometime later. I've failed and ruined way too much to have any type of faith in myself. Some people actually do care about me, and I do admit, I take that for granted sometimes. But, if I didn't have those people in my life, I would probably buy some depression pills and kill myself in a heatbeat.

To love.. isn't good enough. To be a good friend.. isn't good enough.. in the end, people don't give a flying fuck and your left alone thinking you can't do it and your not good enough. Truth is, I probably don't deserve anything in this life.. not one single thing that can make me happy.

I'm sorry for all those I have betrayed, or lied to, or left for something more appealing. I pray every single day for all the people I have ever done anything too... I pray that they forgive me. I don't even know myself anymore.. sometimes I think I just want forgiveness so when I think about it, I don't ball out of guilt or ruin something special like always. But sometimes, I honestly want to get my life on track.

Some people, don't accept change. For the most part, I do. But when some people change, others refuse to accept, leaving the person trying to better themselves in a very awkward and somehow impossible position.

I gotta go

This is true and yet very untrue at the same time.. funny how things can be like that, huh? If it were my choice, I would bold and italicise this to anyone who's going through a situation like this...

SOUL DECISION - Stay Lyrics
Stay, forever, forever.

I'm not that kind of guy who believes in wishful thinking,
I do not believe putting that much on the line.
Ever since you came, and took my heart away,
I knew everything would work out fine.

I'm not the kind of guy, that thinks that I should I should own you.
I don't think that how love was meant to be.
Now that I've got you, I don't ever want you to leave me baby.
So I'm asking to you, to just promise me you'll stay.

[Chorus:]
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll


I'm not that kind of guy who goes into things so quickly,
I like to play the game nice and slow.
Ever since you came, you knocked me off my feet.
I knew that I could never let you go.


I'm not the kind of guy, who believes that love's a notion.
I think what is meant to be should be.
If you should ever leave, I'll be lost without you.
So i'm asking to make a little promise to me,


(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll


I'm not the kind of guy, that thinks that I should I should own
you.
I don't think that how love was meant to be.
Now that i've got you, I don't ever want you to leave me baby.
So I'm asking to you, to just promise me you'll stay.


(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll


(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll

(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll stay

[Simple Plan]

Do you ever feel like breaking down?
Do you ever feel out of place?
Like somehow you just don’t belong
And no one understands you

Do you ever wanna run away?
Do you lock yourself in your room?
With the radio on turned up so loud
That no one hears you screaming

No you don’t know what it’s like
When nothing feels alright
You don’t know what it’s like to be like me

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked
When you’re down
To feel like you’ve been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one’s there to save you
No you don’t know what it’s like

Welcome to my life

Do you wanna be somebody else?
Are you sick of feeling so left out?
Are you desperate to find something more
Before your life is over?

Are you stuck inside a world you hate?
Are you sick of everyone around?
With the big fake smiles and stupid lies
While deep inside you’re bleeding

No you don’t know what it’s like
When nothing feels alright
You don’t know what it’s like to be like me

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked
When you’re down
To feel like you’ve been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one’s there to save you
No you don’t know what it’s like

Welcome to my life

No one ever lied straight to your face
And no one ever stabbed you in the back
You might think I’m happy
But I’m not gonna be ok!

Everybody always gave you what you wanted
You never had to work it was always there
You don’t know what it’s like
What it’s like!

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked
When you’re down
To feel like you’ve been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one’s there to save you
No you don’t know what it’s like (what it's like)

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked
When you’re down
To feel like you’ve been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one’s there to save you
No you don’t know what it’s like

Welcome to my life

Welcome to my life

Welcome to my life

My inner dragon is...

[mist dragon#99]

In the war between good and evil, a Mist Dragon tends to walk the fine line of Neutrality.
When it comes to the powers of Chaos vs. those of Law and Order, your inner dragon walks a fine line between Law and Chaos.
As far as magical tendancies, Your inner dragon has the ability to conquer the world of magic, but it will not be easy.
During combat situations, a true Mist Dragon prefers to defeat opponents by the use of spells and other tactics.

[Dragon Description:]
The Mist Dragon is a highly magical being. It makes it's home in moist areas, but seems to have the ability to appear in any fog or mist in any climate. It is unclear as to whether these dragons follow mist, or mist follows these dragons.

The Mist Dragon is a grayish blue in color, and floats freely in air as though it were mist itself. The Mist Dragon never leaves tracks or traces of it's passing. These dragons move very gracefully and swiftly through their element.

Mist Dragons are very free in nature and seem to be very unpredictable personalities. They are outspoken, and often are harbingers of great changes or happenings.

Hey,

There are some very headached thoughts that are running through my head constantly. I mean, the actual application somewhat applies to me, but I don't really know how to explain it. I mean, it also somewhat doesn't apply, but I'll leave that to your discresion.

For the last few years, the whole idea of being in love, loving the idea of love, and what love is has run through my head many times and I still haven't drawn an actual conclusion. The only real thing I have come up with is that the ACTAUL FEELING of love cannot be described in any language, whether it's human or not. When I usually read other people's views on love, it's something like "It's the feeling where..." or "This happens when..." or even something like "I love him/her because..." All three of these, or probably any description used, only describes what relates to love, rather than the actual feeling itself. That's just my thought about the genre but anywayz...

Lately, I've been thinking about the actual levels of someone falling in love. I figured, there are two general levels in a relationship. Once the first level is obtained, love is present. But once the second level is obtained, a mature and pure love is present. There is a huge difference between the two...

When people typically think of love, they just relate things to love. I do that too because there is no way I can actually describe general love.. everyone feels differently about love.. or some nothing at all until they have obtained it.

In love, (or at least in my opinion of love,) there's a maturity level to it. FOR EXAMPLE: When an obstacle (or two,) approaches... there's a decision to be made. Do they diverge their ways? Does one decide to end the relationship because of the suffering and depression of the other due to the obstacle? Or.. Does the person/people end the relationship because they just feel it's too much of a pain in the ass.

The first two demonstrate love, but one is higher than the other. For the person to do something so painful and dramatic because of the other's well-fare, is one of the ultimate sacrifices. I personally would like to give a standing ovation to anyone who has done that.. they are selfless people and the world will realize how good you are at heart. The other is also love (diverging ways..) but for different reasoning. It simply shows that they do love them, but not enough to go through obstacles.. which isn't pure and mature love in the first place.

I mean, I know opinions differ and I'm probably somewhat wrong about this genre, but I'm giving it a shot and maybe if somebody actually reads this, they can give me the heads up or possibly realize something they didn't know before. I'm not trying to preach or even change opinions. I just wanted to write about this to get a perspective on life and perhaps mature somewhat in the genre.

There's just.. it's a complex issue. Love is the happiest feeling in the world, but it doesn't always make you happy. It's extremely ironic and some people say "to the hell with love," until they finally find the love of their lives. Some people are not lucky enough to find their soulmate, but they still love anyway. What's the deal with this feeling? It mixes everyone up to an extent where they have to reach out and somehow "realize," what they actually want. Then, when they get confused again, the whole process repeats.

[A girl I know very well wrote this...

"Loving him gives me something to triumph along side me when times get hard. The feeling of loving someone so perfect is like nothing is wrong in this world, even in the greatest times of despair. Most of all, loving him is like breathing. I feel the air circulate through my body and it energizes me to live. It's there no matter what, walking with me through every step of my life, making me feel like the most special person in the world, even through I'm unknown to most of it."

"I only wish that I could return the feeling that never leaves me, I only wish I would love fully like I've never been hurt, give everything like nothing has been stolen, and live life as if there's no tomorrow. I wish I could return everything he's given me because it haunts me day and night, helping me wherever I need to go within my life, and helps me help others."

"I never want the feeling to leave, I would be willing to go through anything and sacrifice anything without hesitation. It just seems like nothing else matters and my whole world melts into one perfect feeling that cannot be broken... the feeling of love."]

I don't really want to talk about my emotional involvement with Cody. That's really no ones buisness and it's more private than probably a lot of stuff I keep inside. I'm not in any way ashamed of loving Cody, but if you knew me, you would understand.

With all the love I have,
~Angel

Hey, just a lil song to say how I've been feelin' since last night...when I found out the supposive truth...

Took me a while
But I'm finally here
I just wanna testify
Make it crystal clear
See I've been picked out
To be picked on
Talked about out my friends mouths
I've been beat down
Til he turned my life around
Turn my life around

Seems like I always fall short
Of bein worthy
Cuz I ain't good enough
But He still loves me

I aint no superstar
The spotlight aint shining on me
Cuz I ain't good enough
But He still loves me
I used to wake up somedays
And wish I'd stayed asleep
Cuz I went to bed on top of the world
Today the world's on top of me
Everybody's got opinions
They ain't been in my position
That it breaks my heart
When I hear what they have to say about me

[Seems like I always fall short
Of bein worthy
Cuz I ain't good enough
But He still loves me
I ain't no superstar
I wanna be for you
The spotlight ain't shining on me
Cuz I aint good enough
but He still loves me]

[I'm not perfect]
(I'm not perfect)
[Yes I do wrong]
(yes I do wrong)
[I'm trying my best]
(trying my best but)
[But it aint good enough]
(just aint good enough)
[Shunned by the world
If I don't succeed
Cuz I aint good enough]
But he still loves me
(I just aint good enough)

If you ain't worthy just raise your hands
And let me know that you understand
That we are all so blessed
To be loved

Stand for him or fall for anything
Cuz through his eyes we all look the same
What will we do
Without out pain

Seems like I always fall short
Of bein worthy
Cuz I ain't good enough
But He still loves me

I ain't no superstar
(I ain't no superstar but I wanna be for you Lord)
The spotlight ain't shining on me
Cuz I aint good enough
But You still love me

I'm not perfect
Yes I do wrong
I'm trying my best but
(tryin my best)
It aint good enough
(I'm not good enough)
Shunned be the word
(shunned by the world)
If i dont succeed
(i dont succeed-ceed-ceed)
Cuz I aint good enough
But He still loves me
(child sing with me)
I'm not perfect
Yes I do wrong
I'm trying my best but
It aint good enough
(But the Lord's been so good to me)
Shunned be the word
(Shunned by the world)
If i don't succeed
Cuz I ain't good enough
(I ain't good enough)
But He still loves me
(The Lord still loves me)

No I ain't good enough
But He still loves me
(Raise your hands if you understand)
No I ain't good enough
(How He blessed you cuz He blessed you too)
but He still loves me
(even though I aint worthy)
No I aint good enough
(you aint worthy, He is there for you)
but He still loves me
(no matter what I do)
No I ain't good enough
(I ain't good enough)
but He still loves me
the Lord still loves me

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I stole this from someone on elfpack's description thingy... :)

LOVE
"I dream of a love that even time will lie down and be still for."

"True love cannot be found where it truely does not excist, nor can it be hidden where it truely does."

~Life isn't measured by the breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.~

Before I met you I never knew what it was like to look at someone and smile for no reason.~

~I'd rather have bad times with you than good times with anyone else. I'd rather stand through a storm with you than safe all by myself. I'd have it harder together than easier apart. Above all, I'd rather have you because you're the only one in my heart.~

~Love is living your own life, but sharing it. Love is forgiveness. It's making a million mistakes and turning them into learning experiences. Love is patience, optimistic and sometimes it's a kiss when there is nothing left to say.~

~Love is knowing that you can't be with someone forever, that there'll never be another person that completes you as completely, that you're perfectly imperfect together, that you'll lose a little part of yourself when you lose this person, but taking the time to love them anyway and walking away when it's over with a smile despite the tears.~

~You don't get to choose, you just fall in love. And you get this person who is all right and all wrong at the same time. And you know that you love them so much except sometimes they just drive you completely insane and no on can explain it and the reason it's so confusing is because it's love. But if love didn't have any challenges, what would be the point?~

~Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt.~

~Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more.~

~You know you're infatuated with someone when you say they are perfect. You know you are in love with someone once you realize they're really not perfect, rather the things you love about them are.~

~I need you. I need that guy who can make me laugh just by the way he says hello when I pick up the phone. The guy who makes my hands shake when I'm sitting next to him. And the guy who isn't afraid to keep hugging me when I'm not ready to let go yet.~

~It's incredible the way you make me smile...~

~The world is going to throw us a million reasons why this isn't going to work out between me and you. But, what the world doesn't know is that I'm armed with the one reason why it will... I love you.~

~Do not be afraid of what you feel for someone... they can't be mad at you... you cannot control your emotions, so why not just tell them what is on you mind, and how you feel? And maybe, just maybe, they will tell you back.~

~I hug you and I almost feel like that's where I belong and honestly, that's the only place I want to be.~

~Sometimes you love someone so that you have to be numb to it, because if you actually felt how much you loved them, it would kill you.~

~Love is too strong a word to say to early, but it has too beautiful a meaning to say too late.~

~A kiss is a kiss until you find the one you love, a hug is a hug until its the one you're thinking of, a dream is a dream until you make it come true, love is just a word until its proven to you.~