Hey,
OMG, the BEST possible things happen to me in the WORST possible circumstances.
Hey,
Okay, I'm gonna tell everyone on here right now to stop trying to convince me of what I believe. I'm sick of people giving me reason after reason and I don't have a whole lecture of defense.
Personally, it's making me loose faith.. a lot. And I know your trying to help me but it's only hurting me more. Please stop, because I can't handle that right now too. I can't handle people bitching at me about that because you guys have no idea what's going on.
I wish I could tell you guys everything in our defense, but I can't. It's personal and it seems like I'm the only one that has any faith in it because everyone else is certinly trying to convince me otherwise. Am I really wrong? Please God, give me a sign!
There's a difference between someone who is acting like an ass, and someone who is truly an ass. Please remember that next time you try to convince me of something.
Okay, God, you need to seriously intervine and tell me the truth on this one. I'm getting reason after reason verses some trust here. I know I'm supposed to have faith, but ...I need more, I need to know more. Please, give me a sign!
[NOTE:] For all of those people who have shattered hearts, just know that despite what happeneds, there is always tomorrow whether you like it or not. There is more than one aspect to your life! Yes, emotion can be very powerful as well as decieving.
And it may SEEM like the end of the world is upon you...because your body is lying there dead within your life. You're covered in scars that may never heal, bleeding from the very core. Your heart is softly beating, praying that someone will come to your aid and rescue you. As you slowly breathe and patiently wait, you begin to think of the past and wish that it was there with you once again, and want more than ever to run away to where no one will know you, and nothing will follow you.
You feel completely numb as you begin to fade into darkness, because the innocense has forever left you; You feel nothing as if there was anything to feel but a complete emptiness that can only be replaced by the aids of God, Your Hope, or Someone else.
But, try to make the best with what you have and pray that emptiness that haunts you every minute of the day will be filled in the future. You will be able to sleep again, and the cuts and scars will heal. Although they will remind you where you have been, please, take pride where you have been because it will fill you with strength in the greatest times of despair.
There is more than what appears. Always look for the other aspects of your life and realize how far you've gone or how far you need to go in order to obtain what you've always wanted. Your not alone and there is always more than the emptiness.
I can tell you from past experience the emptiness that many feel becomes dorment but never leaves.. living is the only thing you can do, and yes, it will be a challenge. But be strong enough to be willing to take that challange, and run with it. Otherwise, your allowing yourself to go under.
Hey Everybody, we sight read / other stuff to this song today in choir rehearsal. It's called a "Somewhere Medley.." It's a combination of Somewhere Over The Rainbow and this other song. It's really pretty and it reminded me of a hell of a lot of things lol
[Okay, I feel mucho stupid-o. I just wrote down the beginning of the song and omitted the rest which was the most important part lol]
There's A Place For Us,
Somewhere A Place For Us.
Peace And Quiet And Open Air,
Wait For Us, Somewhere.
There's A Time For Us,
Someday A Time For Us,
Time Together With Time To Spare.
Time To Learn And Time To Care,
We'll Find A Way.
Somewhere A New Day,
We'll Find A New Way Of Living.
We'll Find A Way Of [Forgiving.]
Somewhere, There's A Place For Us.
A Time And A Place For Us.
Hold My Hand And We're Half Way There.
Hold My Hand And I'll Take You There.
We'll Make A New Start,
We'll Find A New Day.
Somewhere Out There,
If Love Can See Us Through,
Then We'll Be Together,
Somewhere Out There,
Where Dreams Come True.
Where Dreams Come True.
Hey, I am going to completely put every complaint and other stuff I have in one entry so I don't have to worry about it anymore.
TOP REASONS WHY 23 REASONS I'M (Along with many others,) ARE REALLY MAD!
1) I hate the fact that some people intentionally hurt other people they supposively care about and then piss you off to make things so much better.
2) I hate it when the people you care about the most think ill of you because you have doubt in yourself through actions or words they've said.
3) I hate it when Teachers don't seem to understand the fact that everything bad is going on in your life, and it may interfear with your academic "state."
4) I hate it when friends betray each other, or when you want something and you can't have it.
5) I hate the fact when people lie to you and then say they're not and pretty much never have before, when in reality, they have to you so many times.. you don't even feel like a person anymore.
6) I hate being reminded every day why my life sucks and watch everyone else be happy-go-lucky
7) I hate repeating the same patterns over and over again that just lead me to pain, then regain faith to join the "living" once again, then be screwed over more than you were before.
8) I hate it when people don't attempt and live things up to their full potential
9) I hate that people arnt willing to accept change [myself included] Despite how unfair the change may seem.
10) I now officially hate myself in each and every way because I've been such a bitch lately as I watch everyone else get what they want.
11) I hate that I sometimes don't have the faith, the ability, or the potential to live for my dreams. So I feel opressed and held back.
12) I hate the fact that people say it's not personal, when it contrast, it feels so personal to you.. you can't even live with yourself.
13) I hate making up reasons to get up in the morning just so I can attempt to live to the best of my abilities.
14) I hate the fact that people say things that mean everything to you, and then don't live up to it, but actually go in the opposite direction.
15) I hate that fact that friends can ruin your life with one simple ill word to another person [September 24, 2004]
16) I hate the fact that I can't make progress because it feels so wrong.
17) I hate the fact that I can't even write this in paragraph form
18) I hate feeling emotion all together, I want to be a robot.
19) I hate when people who feel like they can abuse me for sex, and have before.. then get new girlfriends and live happily ever after. [I am NOT talking about Cody, this is a different person.]
20) I hate when people that just sit there, and listen to me rant and then complain about how I can complain.. but can't seem to find one good thing that's going on with me or themselves right now while I have to listen to them bitch.
21) I hate when people think I'm selfish. I'm anything but and if I was, you would see a completely different side of me, which I've shut up for years.
22) I hate it when people think I'm a dumbass, ditzy, or completely retarded. I may appear to be, but I'm a lot smarter than what you think I am...
TOP REASON WHY I AM REALLY MAD: 23) I hate that I have to accept a false reality just so I can live on with what I have. And I hate it when others enthuse the false reality and make it seem like it's something that it's really not. I also hate it when people try to make me realize how false my reality really is, when I really do know, and am just in denile about it.
TOP 21 REASONS I AM HAPPY
1) If my false reality is actually real, I will cry with joy. I am honestly looking foreward to that day. I live for the moment, rather than in the moment. And when that moment comes, I will cherrish it for all eternity :)
2) I now have a job, have to get my license soon, and could be free to crash my car into a tree and committ suicide if I wanted to :-D
3) I am more calmed and relaxed now physically. Mentally, I'm all over the place and don't really know what to think about anything anymore. If someone would like to give me reassurance, go a head :)
4) I found out which friends are real, and which ones are not.
5) I'm making more friends at BCGC and I'm getting better vocally.
6) I'm doing alright in school, accept for Spanish.. which really doesn't count because of the circumstances I am under with that class.
7) I have stronger faith, although I need reasurrance in some aspects.
8) I know what I am capable of... and what I cannot handle more now than I ever could know before.
9) I am finding that I can finally sleep between two and four hours a night and just not stay up all night and then not even be tired the next day.
10) Things are going well for my friends, in most aspects.
11) Although my test was conclusive, I have to go for further testing to see if I have cancer/other diseases or anything along those lines (it runs heavily in my family and I haven't been doing to well lately.)
12) One Night, I smiled for the first time in a very long time.
13) Although people think ill of me wrongly, I pray they have the faith to see what really happened or who I really am.
14) I think there's a reason people are saying no, and I won't exactly say my response to that... because you'll think I'm psycho lol. You'll see it when you see me :-\
15) Reminising on so many good memories carries me to the next day or when I'm in despair.
16) I love life beyond belief, I just hate all aspects of it and have for quite some time.
17) They stopped playing the fucking chimpmunk song on the radio.
18) My car is getting fixed
19) Music is very inspiring
20) Yes, there is more than one aspect to my life. Some of them are actually going quite well.. while some suffer greatly.
TOP REASON I AM HAPPY: 21) Over the last eight months, I have learned more about life than I could have in an entire lifetime. I'm thankful for that and so much more, whether it was meant for me to know or not.. or whether it was pure or not. I have also learned more about my faults and who I really am because of my inspirations. Whether you believe it or not, I've changed over the last eight months and now (within the last three weeks or so,) I am starting to show that result, even though it's not completely there yet.. and several good pieces are missing :)
I hate the fact that I'm sometimes right (not all the time..) I'd rather be wrong 100% of the time than to be right about the things that matter the most.
And don't even dare to say I'm not right about this (for those of you that know what I'm talking about,) because it's not a matter of I'm the only one that is beginning to believe it. It's a matter of beginning to believe everyone around you reminding you every single day.
Excuse me while I go ask everyone I think of to bloody murder me, or maybe I shouldn't just to piss everyone else off. And yes, saying things like that just lets everyone else know I'm not as ignorant to the facts as they may think I am.
JUDEMENT DAY HAS ARRIVED: Result. Conclusive, I'm really happy the results turned out the way they did. Thank you two for saving my life :)
*Shiver.* I'm REALLY scared about tomorrow. I pray that I'm not one of the six juniors or X amount of Seniors or X amount of sophomores in my High School. Let alone the people everywhere else. Otherwise I will be VERY sick [not pervertically and not forever.] But I will let you (Diary) know first because you have the right. Someone else has more of a right than you, But I gotta decide which of the two it is *Evil Evil Me with no Evil Grin.*
Yes Britt, I considered what you said and I also considered what other people (Tobias, Jessie, John, and probably YLM if he would talk to me,) said about the situation. So, I will make sure everything ends up okay for all people involved. Lets just pray nothing and nobody gets in our way, or I will hunt them down and hurt them very badly. And ya'll know I will. If it's for this *Evil face* (And no, it's not what "some people," think it is lol)
And yes, I just LOVE it when people ignore me. Don't you? *heHehe*
Hey,
I would like to note that I may or may not be leaving ET for a while because I have a really important situation(s) to take care of right now... and if I don't, it may be to late to fix it. Sorry, can't explain (there are four people that know what I am talking about,) and I would love to thank my real friend who agreed to help me with this.. as well as my other best friends :)
NOTE: Everyone I've talked to, thinks it's morally wrong THANK YOU VERY MUCH! When I come across someone that thinks otherwise, I'll let you know :)
NOTE 2: Obviously "this person" didn't see this as important so screw it, I'm gonna take matters into my own hands without them and get a ride where I need to go~ On Wednesday [dum dum dum.. Wednesday is Judgement day :-\] And yes, they deserve to be part of this choice.
[My heart was completely shattered by their response and especially their timing. This person should probably suffer the punishment of their ill choice. But, I'm probably too fucking nice to let them suffer for that but hey, I can dream to stand up to myself once in a while -eh? Yeah, and then they decide to do more to rip my heart out, thank you very much. And yes, that wasn't sarcastic. I'm pretty used to the feeling actually.]
NOTE 3: Unlike some individuals, I don't like to intentionally hurt others. When it comes down to it... whether the other person is willing to or not. Because I'm not gonna fool anyone into believing a bunch of lies, and I'm not gonna change my biography thing unless there is a circumstance in which I have too.
NOTE 4: Morals, in my opinion, are a set amount of standards in which one is to follow in order to obtain the type of person who they wanna be. It's sort of like goal in which one wants to act as a part of their personality...
Yes, there are some things that are just "known" among human nature, especially centering around sex (gender.) It may not be exactly precise, but I can tell you an example: Girl gets pist if guy who's special to her forgets her bithday. See, not to hard to understand is it?
NOTE 5: I don't fucking know if you don't tell me.. unless I'm in your presence and can read it on your face or you make it so obvious it ain't even funny. Don't expect me to just automatically understand something when nothing is said or done at all, I'm not a psychic or mind reader.. so don't expect me to know as much as one would. Actions are loader than words..
I feel so selfish when I use I feel or I want. I know I've hurt others, and sometimes, time heals. But in other times, if I don't know what the other wants or feels, how am I supposed to know what direction to go in or feel? Yes, I consider how others feel but I am not one hundred percent sure if I don't know at all.
NOTE 6: There is a lot I am going through right now, even some things I don't know if I can handle. Long stories for other times. I apologize in advance if I am rude, cruel, bitchy, or just possess the qualities of Satan him/herself. I would be different under any circumstance(s,) but if/once you get to know me little better, you will know why I act the way I do :)
NOTE 7: As far as I knew, If I decide to omit unimportant areas of a story or I forget / realize I missed something and just go on anyway, and finally decide to tell the rest later, I'm still telling the truth. I dunno if I'm psycho for thinking that or there is just something messed in the minds of others lol
NOTE 8: Yes, I am again repeating the same pattern I did three years ago and probably will have to pay the exact same price again, which sucks! And yes, T.C. and all you know what I'm talking about.
NOTE 9: I can be happy and I can be optimistic, but this is how I vent, so your only reading about the [negative inclination] times etc. Sorry for my random notes. More to add later.
NOTE 10: Yes, it's true. I have been asking people to kill me. Everyone has said no so far which somewhat disappoints me but hey, there's nothing I can do about that. I love life, I just hate everything about it (especially emotion...) and I'm smart enouogh to know that it's out to screw you and everyone you care about over eventually.
NOTE 11: The tables turn when it happens to you. You can say it hurts you all you want but when you do it to someone else ten times over, "it's just life." Bull shit, and everybody knows it! Why would you treat someone like that after you've been through it and it hurt you so bad? Why would you do something like that to them and just say "it's life.." Think about that before you call anyone else selfish. [No, I'm not accusing of anyone who does that to be selfish.. and if you think I am, maybe I'm doing everything to contridict something but I'm actually telling the truth.] Think about that one.
NOTE 12: Yes, actions speak loader than words, and when there's nothing there, words can mean the world.. even if it's something so small. Yes, contridiction tries to destroy faith. Why do you think there are so many problems, as well as triumphs in religion and other aspects of life? Someone has to have amazing faith to believe after a tramatic event, and even more to believe in one after another.
I can tell you right now, I don't know if I believe anymore or not. I'm sorry, I knew at one time and now.. it's so cloudy and there's no forcast for Sunny days. I hope it's understandable
[NOTE 13:] You want to know the bloody truth about me? I have problems just like everyone else. And in pretty much all of my entires, when I say I, I mean everyone that's going through that situation uniting. I'm turning into exactly what I don't want to be. Maybe it's my fault I destroyed my life. Maybe my life in the first place was a horrible mistake. Either way, I'm still here shattered and surrendered to everything around me.
YES I ADMIT, I SURRENDOR TO EVERYTHING! Some BlEeSeD Individuals may think I am only talking about one thing in particular. Rather, I am talking about everything. They were all right and they better be fucking happy about it because I'm not. And that's probably what they intended in the first place.
I feel like broken glass cutting for bloody murder. Maybe pushing away is the solution, but I want to know everything is okay. I want to know that if I leave forever, everyone else will be taken care of.. (no, this isn't a suicide note/threat or anything of the sort.)
I feel like sorry isn't enough anymore. Sorry for this and Sorry for that when it's an honest mistake that is gonna burden me for the rest of my life. Reminders only haunt and again, I know I've hurt others. But nothing is going to heal if I don't know. That's why I think expression is so important. For those of you that don't express, I can't tell unless I'm around you. And sometimes, that's not even possible.
What is up with no forgiveness? If your not forgiven for your debts when you've never been more sorry and want to make everything better once again, then it's only more of a burden and the other person hurts also. Forgiveness does not come easy, and it doesn't always change the way things are. But it's a start to something that could be incrediable. I've been there, and I know what it's like.
NOTE 14: SOMETIMES, I GET PARANOID AND BECOME A BITCH BECAUSE I BEGIN TO LOOSE FATIH. WHY DO YOU THINK I'M SO RELAXED AT FIRST AND THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN DECIDE TO ACT COMPLETELY DIFFERENT? DESPITE WHETHER EVERYONE I KNOW KNOWS THAT OR NOT, THEY WON'T CARE. "IT'S LIFE.." RIGHT? JUST A LITTLE ASSURANCE OF FAITH WOULD COMPLETELY WIPE THE PROBLEM AWAY, OTHERWISE IT WILL GET WORSE. I CAN GUARANTEE THAT SOMETHING OF THIS SORT HAPPENS TO EVERYONE, WHICH IS WHY I'M WRITING ABOUT IT NOW. AND I CAN GUARANTEE THAT IF A LITTLE ASSURANCE WAS PROVIDIDED TO PEOPLE GOING THROUGH THIS, PEOPLE WOULDN'T HAVE TO BE LIKE THIS! AND EVEN THEN, IF THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT IT, THEY DON'T THINK ASSURANCE IS COMING.
Hey Everybody,
I changed my mind and decided to write entries here rather than on the other website. I'm here all the time anyway and those people reading that I don't want them to read, can anyway. They're all mad at me for so many reasons and it's nothing I can fix.. or in some cases, even caused in the first place.
My brain and emotions are running so fast I can't even function. First I'm feeling independent, then dependent, then alone, then supported, and then hates.. and loved and everything else there is too feel.
At first I thought there was no way in Hell what some people were saying were right. But as the source tells, and other's find out, more agree and I'm beginning to doubt myself in every way. I know I have strong faith but it's an army against a select few. I don't know what to think anymore... And I barely know what to even feel.
Sometimes, faith is telling me to hold on to the things I want so dearly.. and sometimes, it tells me to let go. I want to be with those I truly love, to have the freedom that I can have, and to be able to live without burden. Which in reality, is impossible. So I only ask for a slice of each one, along with strong faith, so I can survive for the next seventy to eighty years.
I admit, I've been going back to my old ways the last few days, which hasn't been really good. The same people that got me out of my old ways are now either pist, gone, or don't really give a shit whether I live or die. I pray I can get through it for those I truly love (and yes, you know who you are.)
I wish "someone" would take me in their arms and just tell me how wrong these people are and that I can have what I dream for. It's something I've been that I've been waiting forever for [not literally forever,] but you get the idea. It's a long story and I don't feel like explaining it.
The good thing is only two years till hopeful freedom and I got a job, which in some cases, can be a good thing. I want to elaborate about some things in particular.. but that's really no one's buisness.
Hey, my friend Jay wrote this for his girlfriend a long time ago. I just thought it was true and so I decided to post it. :) I truly believe this is what love is and when someone says "I love you," everything in the below passage will come true at one time or another *Happy Face*
Love is...
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Love is trusting each other with secrets no one else will ever know.
Love is being respectful enough to tell all secrets even if they seem to be hurtful to her.
Knowing that after every fight, when you admit that you knew she was right, she'll love you so much more.
Caring about her so much that you are willing to sacrifice all you have to spend just one more moment with her.
Showing the world how much you love her, no matter who disagrees with you.
Never wondering if you were wrong to choose her because you know in your heart that she is the only person who can ever make you truly happy.
Looking forward to spending the rest of your life with her because you never doubted the decision of being with her.
Feeling that your life is perfect when you have her in your arms.
Pouring your heart out into every kiss you give her.
Doing all the little things for her no matter how trivial they may seem, just for the romantism of doing them.
Seeing that look in her eyes and wanting to tell her everything about how you feel, but returning her gaze knowing all the words known to man could never express your love for or devotion to her.
Kissing away all her fears and holding her to comfort her, letting her know you will never let any harm come to her.
Doing all these things and more for her because of the person she is, not because of what she does or does not have or because of what other people think or say about her.
Doing these things because you know she is the only person for you, and that you can never find anyone to make you feel the way she makes you feel.
Love is so many things I cannot even begin to describe in any language, human or not. So I hope that I can make her understand how I feel through the kisses I give her and the way I hold her in my arms when words cannot express my emotions.
Hey,
Okay I changed my mind (Like I never do that...:-O.) One last entry here on Elftown and yes, this is directed towards one or several individuals in which I will not indicate.
I believe I did something incredibly naïve and very VERY retarded. And no, I haven’t talked to anyone about this or sought council *for those ^blessed^ individual(s) who were wondering.* So yes, this is the full fledged blow of a situation in which I choose to write about because I can’t stand getting angrier every single day and then feeling depressed afterwards because I’m so tired of feeling emotion at all. And no, I am not going to be metaphorical or cover it up like chocolate syrup on a sundae.
For those of you that truly know me, you know why I act the way I do... Moreover, you also know why mentally and emotionally I am the way I am. Some ^blessed^ individual(s) who pretended to give a shit do not, and yet they still pretend they do. It only pisses me off that these people actually think I am stupid enough to fall for their little fraud. I admit I did not know the whole time but every day I learn more and every day, I see my faith in the situation falter because of what I learn.
It’s sad how crude and vulgar some people can be. Sometimes, I wish I did not feel emotion at all, making some situations so much easier. I swear these ^blessed^ individuals see life as black and white, and I full-heartily believe their entitled to their own fucking opinion(s).
But, as the Virgin Mother of Mary as my witness, they will come into something where they cannot make one of those god-damn excuses as to “it’s either this or this.” Because then, who I’m talking about will be the one that will end up suffering. It’s unlike me to be malicious but whenever the people I’m talking about falls into one of those situations, I hope they feel like shit and shut their horrible excuse of a mouth the hell up.
Obviously, the person(s) did not care as they said they did…or they made it EXTREMELY apparent they cared about other people who are supposed to be below you in the “relationship hierarchy” more than you… all they had to say was they didn’t give a shit in the first place. It’s not that hard. Nevertheless, people do crazy stuff because they want things like power, money, sexual favors, etc. These people are incredibly sad and I, along with many others, hope they burn in hell. You may not think it’s you, but look around and smell the coffee, because it very well may be.
I would just like to add that I’m sick as hell defending these people because I don’t wanna believe I’ve made a bad choice. This is where others know better than you, especially if you’re involved. So I will no longer defend, rant, or try to make excuses for these people in which have done some horrible things to me, or other people (if they’re that type.)
I’ve fought for these ^blessed^ individual(s) long enough with nothing in return besides a call or an invitation here and there. I’m sick of being nice, and most of all, I’m sick of being stepped all over. In some cases, these people have ruined what took me years to obtain, in which utterly and totally pisses me off beyond all extent. If I could go back in time, I would use all my strength to kick their ass and confine them until they learn how to be civilized people.
I’m not self-centered, looking for all the sympathy in the world, or want everything in return for so little. I simply want something in which I know what I’m fighting for is right. The more I learn, the more I find what I’m fighting for is worthless and has no means-to-an-en
~Angel
On a P.S. note: I know I sound like a total bitch but if you met me in person, you would know that’s only true in some aspects.
Secondly, I HATE that despite how much some people feel, others LOVE to step the fuck all over you and tear what you’ve worked your entire life for to shreds. I sarcastically HOPE these people are happy with themselves and will have all of eternity to live with what they have done to other people. [I know I’m not the saint, but I also know there is far worse than me in this world…]
Hey,
I just wanted to let you guys know that I haven't been writing because I completely broke down tonight...I've been pretending to be somewhat happy and I'm not.. and things have been done that shouldn't have.. and guilt haunts me from months and years ago of horrible things I've done.
Things I've done even as recently as September still haunt me, I mean I know life goes on, but just the image turns my stomach and I start to tear. I just wish those I've hurt know I'm turning a new leaf. I'm far more relaxed with myself than I was even a month ago.. or two.
I've come to realize that it doesn't matter how much you love, or want, or flat out desire beyond all else. The amount of emotion, or the presence doesn't matter what-so-ever if certain things don't occur. Just grr.. it makes me sick to the stomach. I mean, everything a person wants, they shouldn't recieve because that makes them emotionally and mentally weak.
Sometimes, I just wish people could read my mind without me having to tell them what I want. Some people should already know exactly what I want down to the very last detail... I'm the type of person where you can read what I want all over my face, I'm horrible at lying etc.
It just hurts me so much to know that it doesn't matter how much it haunts me or how much an emotion overpowers me or anyone else for that matter.. if it's impossible to pursue. Arg.. most of you would have NO idea what I'm talking about.
So.. I guess I will stop rambling about important nothings and go learn my oral exam and eight words in Español for tomorrow's examens...
Hey,
Just a little something I wrote in my journal...
It was early in the summer. School was about to get out and as I was looking out the window, I realized that everything in this world is so beautiful. The sun was shinning through the thin white clouds, the trees were growing-green, and the fresh grass smell was coming through the window.
But, that is not what consumed my mind. For there were other important and difficult things within my life. I had a math book in front of me while I was sitting at a cramped desk in a boiling room with 24 other bodies. But, all I could think about was her, Anita. She was only the length of two desks in front of me and one desk to the right. Such a small distance for someone that was so complex, someone in which I had so much to say, and most of all someone I loved so much.
Anita was perfect, she had flowing brown hair, seductive blue eyes, and a light-tan complection that was to die for. She was the most beautiful creature on the face of the earth and anyone who knew her, was incrediebly blessed just for having her in their life. She was intelligent, caring, generous and most of all... selfless. She wasn't like some prep or freak, she was an Angel. But her mind, was clouded. I would have done anything to help her, but I knew in my heart, her happiness was worth more than anything I could give her.
I loved Anita for a very long time and I will always love her. I knew anyone that could have her would be the luckiest man on the face of the earth. I would have treated her like a queen and never betrayed her, because I would have felt so blessed to have someone like Anita in my life. One of the things I loved most about her was that she was so strong. She had been through so much, and yet cared and loved and acted like nothing ever happened and that she had never been hurt. She could face the world and rip it to shreds.
Sometimes I wish I was selfish in my decision and that she would at least know how much pain and sorrow and despair I have gone through, or that I could be her knight on a white horse for all time. But the truth is, I don't want her to feel sorry for me. I don't want her to reject me and make what we have impossible to maintain. I will always love Anita until the day I die, and I swear with the Virgin Mary as my witness, David is the luckiest man on the face of the Earth.
A long time ago, David broke up with Anita because he wasn't ready for commitment anymore. He was scared that he found the wrong person to spend the rest of his life with, and so he left Anita without so much as a phone call. He tore her to shreds and made her suffer in agony for so long..
She would tell me that her heart was torn apart, and that she's the one that did wrong. She wanted to be back with David because she loved him so much and wished that he would call her with the words of comfort that she was loved so very much and that he would take her in his arms to be with him forever. Unfortunately, those words were hard to come by.
I personally did not like David. I thought he allowed Anita to get in way too deep and then let her off the hook. He ALLOWED her to fall in love with him and say that he would love her forever. And he told her everything would be all right and there was nothing in this world that they could not face together. He ALLOWED her to have sex, in which she lost her virginity because she thought he loved her. She was never able to get that back, and that's one of the things she felt so bad about.
Anita felt so bad about a lot of things. She did everything in her power to make him happy, so they could be together in peace and harmony. I watched the entire time, with my tongue tied, knowing that she was happy. I was there for her in her troubles and I knew that being there, was one of the best things of all. It hurt so much to see her hurt and I just wanted to give her a hug and tell her that I loved her and everything would be okay. I was her shoulder to cry on when she was crying so hard, she couldn't stand any longer.
I was so mad at David for not realizing what a blessing he had before. I understood why he broke up with her, but I failed to understand that when he said those things, that I would have said without hesitation, he didn't sick by the meaning of it and work through the hard times, so they could be together.
I'm not saying I'm a saint, or some other Godly creature. I was just a friend when another was in need, and I hope if that what makes Anita happy, that's all I ever want to be. I don't want to be the husband, or the boyfriend, or the friend with benefits, no matter how much I want to be for me. I want to happen what she wants because she's more important than me, and I would protect anything and everything that pertained to her.
I remember one day last year, Anita was at the breaking point, she felt so bad about what happened, she tried to take her own life. I was watching her and it hurt me so much. I comforted her and told her everything would be okay, like I had on so many other occasions. But, this time, she asked me to do something.. something I didn't want to do. All I wanted was to look into her graceful eyes and tell her how much I loved her and would protect her. But she asked me to talk to David, and see what's actually going on.
I couldn't take it any longer, I was so angry that David would treat her that way, I was angry that Anita felt that way, and most of all.. I was angry at myself. I was happy with my decision, but I was angry that I didn't do something for myself once and just tell her how I felt. Oh, I look back at that moment sometimes and wish I just would have called her on the phone and said, Anita.. I love you so much and tell her my story.
Instead, I drove to Davids house and politely knocked on the door. I went to his room and sat in his bean bag chair and placed it in front of the door. I simply started with, ["David, we've been going friends for years and there's a few things I would like to say. I'm not going to let you leave until I get to finish because frankly, your being a cocky son of a bitch and if you don't straighten up your act, you gonna hurt so many that truly don't deserve it."]
At this point, he started to get extremely angry with my and even stood. But then he replied, ["Look, we have been good friends for a long time, and I might as well hear what you have to say. But don't ever call me a cocky son of a bitch again or I'll kill you."]
I was someone fearful of that comment because David was so much bigger than I. I found strength within me from Anita and stood up, and started saying what needed to be said for so long... ["As your friend, I'm seeing you make a horrible decision that could ruin your life...and frankly, I'm fearful that your going to look back and see how much of a god-damn moron you were and you won't know what the fuck to do until the day you die. Again, if you want me to be perfectly honest, I have a confession to make."]
I was so scared to say this in front of David because I knew he would rip into me, but again.. it needed to be said more than anything else ever did between us, ["I've loved Anita for years. And I would do anything to be with her. I think anyone in this world that's with her is the luckiest guy on the face of the Earth. She's so beautiful and kind and everything else good in a person...and she loves you man. She loves you TO DEATH. She would do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING for you without hesitation."]
I started to shake, but I went on, ["Your being a fucking idiot. Your the luckiest guy on the face of the PLANET. Out of six billion other men, your IT. If I was you, I would call her up right now and tell her how much you love her, even if there is life issues getting in the way. She feels like you used her and threw her in the trash. I don't think she deserves that what-so-ever. She's one of the few girls that actually any good anymore. You don't come across one of them every day.. as a matter of fact, a girl like that is RARE. And I don't understand why you would be such an ass to throw that all AWAY."]
I almost started to shed tears as I went on...["Please don't tell Anita how I feel about her. But I beg of you to just call her and tell her how much you care about her. Your wasting your time and energy on other girls that are completely flawed. Please, she feels like you tore her heart out and she loves YOU. She doesn't love ANYONE ELSE. I don't understand why you did that. But you have a chance to fix this and win her back. She's waiting for you to call."]
I handed him the telephone, knowing that I was trashing my life with Anita for her happiness, ["Please David, just make that one phone call, dial those seven numbers because I know you want to. I can see it in your eyes that you love her and regret letting her go. Please, just call her.."]
And he took the phone, called Anita, and they lived happily ever after.
Hey, I was thinking in the car as usual lolz.. as this is what I came up with. I don't mean to talk about anything private that people won't want me to talk about... but I need to write this down lolz.
I Can Guarantee
Despite so much,
I have so many guarantees.
That I mean full-heartidly
And that I will never take back.
I can guarantee that despite everything,
There will be difficult times.
And I can also tell you, there will be times of paradise.
But I pray to the Lord above,
That we will triumph through the hard times,
And live in paradise forever.
I can guarantee that we will argue.
But I also guarantee we will agree.
But when those times come,
I tell you, we will talk and work things out.
I know at one point or another,
We will want to leave,
But I know that those times,
Are just temporary.
I can completely guarantee,
That I will always have faith.
And that if it ever faulters,
I will find myself triuphing through.
I will always believe,
No matter what happens.
One thing I [can not] guarentee,
Is forever because it simply is impossible.
But I will always be completely devoted.
[But.. right now, if I don't ask you to be mine,
I can guarantee that I will regret it for the rest of my life.]
Hey,
Not that anyone really cares, but lately.. I've been fluctuating a lot mentall and emotionally. Sometimes I'm completely happy, and others... A murderer would be doing a favor to pick me for his next victim. I don't understand life and at this pace, I don't know if I ever will.
[The Fact Is.. I'm LIVING WITHOUT LIVING]
It seems hard to understand, but to some of you, it will make perfect sense :)
Through Rainy Days,
And Cold Winter Nights,
I Am Completely Trapped,
In A Lifeless Life.
My Mind Is Clouded,
And My Emotions Are Decieving.
And I Wish I could Escape,
And Find Some True Meaning.
The Meaning Of LIFE,
The Meaning To Be Happy,
In A Perfect World
That To Me, Is Completely Undeserving.
I'm So Unhappy With Myself,
For What I've Done,
Sometimes I Wish I Could Have,
Went Back, Triumphed, And Won.
I Have Done So Much,
That I Cannot Repair.
But I Pray For Forgiveness,
Of The Lives I've Teared.
I Hope Someday,
That I Will Have A Second Chance,
For That's All I Ask For,
I Simply Ask, To Dance.
I Know I'm Not Perfect,
And I know I Possess Weakness,
But All I Wish For,
Is A Day Of Bliss.
Despite The Twists And Turns,
I Promise To Always Be Loyal,
And I Can Guarentee That,
As Growth is Guarenteed In Rich Soil.
And I Full-Heatidly Promise,
That When I Look Into Your Eyes,
I Will Honestly Be Thankful,
Through Every Day Of My Life.
I Ask God To Please Help Me,
I'm Begging On My Knees,
I Want To Compromise,
My Evil And Worthless Deads.
I Pondered On So Many Things,
That Were Completely Not Worth It,
But Now, I Possess An Inner Strength,
Full Of Intellect And Wit.
I've Changed So Much Within,
Just Thinking About Myself,
And Realizing My Faults,
And Why I Possessed Stealth.
**IT NEEDS WORK LOLZ**
Hey,
I've been thinking a lot these days about some particular things, some I can't even bear to write down or say.. they always lead me to the very same conclusions about everything in my life.
..Death just isn't simple enough is it? A lot of people kill themselves, but it's the only easy way out in which everyone else, but the person suffers. Even the most idiotic mother fucker on this Earth would feel guilty if one was to die because of their actions. And if they don't feel guilty, then they should be tormented and killed.
It's just.. there's a difference between what should happen and what has to happen. Sometimes, people have to suffer because they want something so badly, but what has to happen is the complete opposite. This seems to happen to be a lot, but it doesn't really matter because I would always choose what has to happen. But when it really hits a homerun, I want to happen what I want to happen, not what has to be done. What has to be done is too hard for me to handle. I'm not exactly sure if that's just a lack of faith in myself, or I really couldn't physically handle it. Either way, I'm in something much to deep.
Those two songs before, were way too true. I'm not looking for pitty, I'm looking for SOMETHING to go right.. for once and not turn into hell sometime later. I've failed and ruined way too much to have any type of faith in myself. Some people actually do care about me, and I do admit, I take that for granted sometimes. But, if I didn't have those people in my life, I would probably buy some depression pills and kill myself in a heatbeat.
To love.. isn't good enough. To be a good friend.. isn't good enough.. in the end, people don't give a flying fuck and your left alone thinking you can't do it and your not good enough. Truth is, I probably don't deserve anything in this life.. not one single thing that can make me happy.
I'm sorry for all those I have betrayed, or lied to, or left for something more appealing. I pray every single day for all the people I have ever done anything too... I pray that they forgive me. I don't even know myself anymore.. sometimes I think I just want forgiveness so when I think about it, I don't ball out of guilt or ruin something special like always. But sometimes, I honestly want to get my life on track.
Some people, don't accept change. For the most part, I do. But when some people change, others refuse to accept, leaving the person trying to better themselves in a very awkward and somehow impossible position.
I gotta go
This is true and yet very untrue at the same time.. funny how things can be like that, huh? If it were my choice, I would bold and italicise this to anyone who's going through a situation like this...
SOUL DECISION - Stay Lyrics
Stay, forever, forever.
I'm not that kind of guy who believes in wishful thinking,
I do not believe putting that much on the line.
Ever since you came, and took my heart away,
I knew everything would work out fine.
I'm not the kind of guy, that thinks that I should I should own you.
I don't think that how love was meant to be.
Now that I've got you, I don't ever want you to leave me baby.
So I'm asking to you, to just promise me you'll stay.
[Chorus:]
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll
I'm not that kind of guy who goes into things so quickly,
I like to play the game nice and slow.
Ever since you came, you knocked me off my feet.
I knew that I could never let you go.
I'm not the kind of guy, who believes that love's a notion.
I think what is meant to be should be.
If you should ever leave, I'll be lost without you.
So i'm asking to make a little promise to me,
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll
I'm not the kind of guy, that thinks that I should I should own
you.
I don't think that how love was meant to be.
Now that i've got you, I don't ever want you to leave me baby.
So I'm asking to you, to just promise me you'll stay.
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
How can i love you if it's just for one day?
(Stay) Stay with me forever, forever, baby.
Cause I can love if you just promise me, you'll stay
[Simple Plan]
Do you ever feel like breaking down?
Do you ever feel out of place?
Like somehow you just don’t belong
And no one understands you
Do you ever wanna run away?
Do you lock yourself in your room?
With the radio on turned up so loud
That no one hears you screaming
No you don’t know what it’s like
When nothing feels alright
You don’t know what it’s like to be like me
To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked
When you’re down
To feel like you’ve been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one’s there to save you
No you don’t know what it’s like
Welcome to my life
Do you wanna be somebody else?
Are you sick of feeling so left out?
Are you desperate to find something more
Before your life is over?
Are you stuck inside a world you hate?
Are you sick of everyone around?
With the big fake smiles and stupid lies
While deep inside you’re bleeding
No you don’t know what it’s like
When nothing feels alright
You don’t know what it’s like to be like me
To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked
When you’re down
To feel like you’ve been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one’s there to save you
No you don’t know what it’s like
Welcome to my life
No one ever lied straight to your face
And no one ever stabbed you in the back
You might think I’m happy
But I’m not gonna be ok!
Everybody always gave you what you wanted
You never had to work it was always there
You don’t know what it’s like
What it’s like!
To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked
When you’re down
To feel like you’ve been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one’s there to save you
No you don’t know what it’s like (what it's like)
To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked
When you’re down
To feel like you’ve been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one’s there to save you
No you don’t know what it’s like
Welcome to my life
Welcome to my life
Welcome to my life
My inner dragon is...
[mist dragon#99]
In the war between good and evil, a Mist Dragon tends to walk the fine line of Neutrality.
When it comes to the powers of Chaos vs. those of Law and Order, your inner dragon walks a fine line between Law and Chaos.
As far as magical tendancies, Your inner dragon has the ability to conquer the world of magic, but it will not be easy.
During combat situations, a true Mist Dragon prefers to defeat opponents by the use of spells and other tactics.
[Dragon Description:]
The Mist Dragon is a highly magical being. It makes it's home in moist areas, but seems to have the ability to appear in any fog or mist in any climate. It is unclear as to whether these dragons follow mist, or mist follows these dragons.
The Mist Dragon is a grayish blue in color, and floats freely in air as though it were mist itself. The Mist Dragon never leaves tracks or traces of it's passing. These dragons move very gracefully and swiftly through their element.
Mist Dragons are very free in nature and seem to be very unpredictable personalities. They are outspoken, and often are harbingers of great changes or happenings.
Hey,
There are some very headached thoughts that are running through my head constantly. I mean, the actual application somewhat applies to me, but I don't really know how to explain it. I mean, it also somewhat doesn't apply, but I'll leave that to your discresion.
For the last few years, the whole idea of being in love, loving the idea of love, and what love is has run through my head many times and I still haven't drawn an actual conclusion. The only real thing I have come up with is that the ACTAUL FEELING of love cannot be described in any language, whether it's human or not. When I usually read other people's views on love, it's something like "It's the feeling where..." or "This happens when..." or even something like "I love him/her because..." All three of these, or probably any description used, only describes what relates to love, rather than the actual feeling itself. That's just my thought about the genre but anywayz...
Lately, I've been thinking about the actual levels of someone falling in love. I figured, there are two general levels in a relationship. Once the first level is obtained, love is present. But once the second level is obtained, a mature and pure love is present. There is a huge difference between the two...
When people typically think of love, they just relate things to love. I do that too because there is no way I can actually describe general love.. everyone feels differently about love.. or some nothing at all until they have obtained it.
In love, (or at least in my opinion of love,) there's a maturity level to it. FOR EXAMPLE: When an obstacle (or two,) approaches... there's a decision to be made. Do they diverge their ways? Does one decide to end the relationship because of the suffering and depression of the other due to the obstacle? Or.. Does the person/people end the relationship because they just feel it's too much of a pain in the ass.
The first two demonstrate love, but one is higher than the other. For the person to do something so painful and dramatic because of the other's well-fare, is one of the ultimate sacrifices. I personally would like to give a standing ovation to anyone who has done that.. they are selfless people and the world will realize how good you are at heart. The other is also love (diverging ways..) but for different reasoning. It simply shows that they do love them, but not enough to go through obstacles.. which isn't pure and mature love in the first place.
I mean, I know opinions differ and I'm probably somewhat wrong about this genre, but I'm giving it a shot and maybe if somebody actually reads this, they can give me the heads up or possibly realize something they didn't know before. I'm not trying to preach or even change opinions. I just wanted to write about this to get a perspective on life and perhaps mature somewhat in the genre.
There's just.. it's a complex issue. Love is the happiest feeling in the world, but it doesn't always make you happy. It's extremely ironic and some people say "to the hell with love," until they finally find the love of their lives. Some people are not lucky enough to find their soulmate, but they still love anyway. What's the deal with this feeling? It mixes everyone up to an extent where they have to reach out and somehow "realize," what they actually want. Then, when they get confused again, the whole process repeats.
[A girl I know very well wrote this...
"Loving him gives me something to triumph along side me when times get hard. The feeling of loving someone so perfect is like nothing is wrong in this world, even in the greatest times of despair. Most of all, loving him is like breathing. I feel the air circulate through my body and it energizes me to live. It's there no matter what, walking with me through every step of my life, making me feel like the most special person in the world, even through I'm unknown to most of it."
"I only wish that I could return the feeling that never leaves me, I only wish I would love fully like I've never been hurt, give everything like nothing has been stolen, and live life as if there's no tomorrow. I wish I could return everything he's given me because it haunts me day and night, helping me wherever I need to go within my life, and helps me help others."
"I never want the feeling to leave, I would be willing to go through anything and sacrifice anything without hesitation. It just seems like nothing else matters and my whole world melts into one perfect feeling that cannot be broken... the feeling of love."]
I don't really want to talk about my emotional involvement with Cody. That's really no ones buisness and it's more private than probably a lot of stuff I keep inside. I'm not in any way ashamed of loving Cody, but if you knew me, you would understand.
With all the love I have,
~Angel