ok... sometimes things may seem hard, difficult, weird, fucked up, or just plain uncontrolable.... but check it out... those same things r just an amplified version of when u were 8 and u wanted to drive a car... haha and when u get the chance u rear end a mustang... all these fucked up situations u go through in life are just preparing u for what u are going to face later in life... there r 3 main lessons that i have learned yet i have many more aspects of those lessons to learn... 1. pay attention to where u are now, not where ud rather be because no matter how hard u try, ur still going to be where u dont want to be. 2. be patient. if something is worth having, its worth waiting for. relationships, that new car, that awesome job(career). take ur time.. get to know him/her, dont go too fast because that why there are sooo many misunderstandings and distrust... that new car is not what it seems, think about everything ud use that car for... go through college not neccesarly to learn more, but just to get that experience... if u stop trying to learn, u will inturn learn faster... 3. stop trying to get people to like u... no matter what u do, u are left with urself... everything u do, u do alone... there may be help on the way, but in reality, u do what u do.. whether its ur part or the whole damn thing... its u who u have to live with.. so just try to focus on where ur going to start, not what u want to be exactly... just START.. that is the most important thing... just remember that this didnt come from me... it came from where u have not looked inside urself