In my opinion a goth is :


1
Goths find respect very important .
They have respect for others and trie to form an opinion on how they are and not how they look like .
Goths hated it when the respect is not the other way around.


2
Goths are very emotional .
if others have problems they will try and help that person as much as he she can .

3
When goths have problems they will withdraw a bit form life or they try to focuse on something like drawing or writing.
They find a way to deal with their problems their self .

4
Relations are very important .
they are often very close but when they open themself to others those others become really important for them.

5
Most importantly: It's a feeling.
Many people all have this but you must have that tiny extra that makes you felling it.

Feel free to give me sugestions on the matter
Or changes :)