I have to say, I long ago came to the conclusion that I am not ever going to be well put together. I am by nature sort of scruffy and messy- whether it's my clothes, my hair, or my mood. I'm never going to be a nice, neat little parcel. I'm a package held together by stickers and string, with odd angles jutting out of it, wrapped in more than one sort of paper because someone ran out of their intended kind half-way through. I'm ok with that.