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Welcome to my wiki. My name is Sara-Louise, and you can find my house at [.+*Visions of Falling Stars*+.]. I'm here to help with problems you may be faced with - I've been told I have a talent for making people feel better! I haven't got a degree in therapy, but I've attended therapy for the past 4 years, so I guess I'm quite experienced in that respect ^.^ So give me a try, and even if I can't help, atleast it didn't cost you anything.


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Some days, you don't feel like waking up. Others, you can't understand why you ever fell asleep. But everyday is a new experience.
Some experiences are unpleasant, and I acknowledge this fact, but everyone needs to learn. Things happen, time changes drastically. But we move on, we adjust. It's how life has evolved over these few thousand years, and it's how it will continue to evolve until the world ends and closes up inside itself. The thing we need to learn to understand, is the feelings behind these new experiences. To learn from this, we first need to understand. Why did he leave me? Because he wasn't right for me. Why did she hurt me? Because these things happen, and we move on. Why did he die? Because everyones time comes, and it's never too soon - always on time. Why did she have to hurt herself? Because she has no other way to deal with her pain... And it goes on as so. What people don't seem to understand, is these coping mechanisms are all a part of daily life. Some people learn, other never learn, and a select few choose not to. Learn from your bad times, as these will shape the good.
Don't look at the past as a reminder of pain, but as a whole experience you can use as a tool to shape the clay that is your future (or plasticine, whichever you prefer).
Someday, you'll wake up and see that this is all in aid of something amazing you thought you'd never experience. It may be your soulmate walking into your life, it may be your first baby, the adoption of a child or something just as huge as this. The wisdom you recieve throughout life does not come with age. It comes with heartbreak, pain, experience. I call this maturity, and lap it up because you'll get alot of it in one lifetime. Just don't hate it too much. Things always get better. Keep smiling, always hold your head up high and I promise you things will get better. You just have to wait to see your destiny unfold.

This is a wiki for anyone who has ever felt alone. For anyone who has experienced sadness, upset, pain. Anyone who has experienced the loss of will to live. I'm here to tell you it's all going to be ok.


List your upset below, and you'll get a reply from myself as soon as possible. Just trust the wiki.





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I think I love him. I'm pretty dure I love him...And that I'm in love with him. Yet, I keep having these doubts. Do I really? Do I even know what love is? These dreams keep coming to me, with me confessing my love, and him rejecting me. It worsens my depression. I'm not sure if I can live with the fact thta I love some else, as well. It's quite confusing, and I'm not sure how to explain it. I don't know what to do. And above all, I've lost the will to live. And I'm not sure why. If you can't help, that's OK. You wouldn't be the first.

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[It sounds to me like you're dwelling in your feelings a little more than you should be. Relax, stop worrying, and start to think about the possibility of a successful relationship with this person. Once you stop worrying about the possibilities of failure, you'll realise your true feelings. Follow your heart, and mentally list all your insecurities. Find a reason contradicting all the bad things in your mind telling you to give up, and when you've found a positive for all the negatives, you'll know what to do. If you find the courage inside yourself to tell him, then tell him. If you don't, then maybe now isn't the right time? You don't have to rush things, if it's meant to be, it will happen! If you're feeling suicidal and you've lost the will to live, the relationship you're craving may just be a coping mechanism you're trying to forge within your mind. Know that your family and your friends are always going to be there for you, nomatter what, and using a relationship to fix your problems doesn't work.
Once you're happy with yourself, you'll know what to do. It just takes time and thought to overcome such deep feelings, but you'll know the answer to your question in time.
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2005-11-26 [ceridwen]: So, we tell you what's wrong and you give advice?

2005-11-27 [.+*Visions of Falling Stars*+.]: Exactly ^.^

2007-08-12 [Duke Devlin]: Your link - replies from his angels, doesn't work =(( Just though I'd tell ya =)

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