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2006-10-04 [Lorian]: hehe.....I would have to wholeheartedly agree with that :P
2008-10-31 [Nita]: Nooo, body parts of all sorts is what's right about biological gender (a.k.a. sex) ;P
2008-10-31 [Veltzeh]: I should change that "wrong" to "unfair".
2008-10-31 [Nita]: Well, it's biology... You can't exactly accuse reality of being "unfair", IMO. That's rather futile :)
2008-10-31 [Veltzeh]: Basically I could same the same about psychological things—it's all self-deception
2008-10-31 [Nita]: Mmm? Which psychological things? Well, of course, if I designed the human species, it would be different. But that doesn't mean that biology is being wrong or mean, just like entropy isn't evil.
2008-11-01 [Veltzeh]: Most people can be really effectively conditioned (so that they, for example, can only sleep when the lights are on). And when along comes a person who hasn't been conditioned that way, well, too bad for em, because there's no way to turn off the lights. Is it unfair that the lights can't be turned off or that the person hasn't been conditioned like everyone else?
And I already said I should change it to "unfair" (so it wouldn't be "wrong") (I'm not even going to touch "mean"). :P Of course, everyone knows that life is unfair, so who should care? Maybe it's just another personality flaw of mine to want everything be as fair as it can. I acknowledge well enough that everything can't ever be fair anyway.
2008-11-01 [Nita]: Neither is unfair. Refusing to do your best to accommodate someone for no reason is :P
Life is not unfair :/ It just is. Nature has no freedom to make choices, unfair or otherwise. But we (and a few other species, sometimes) do have the freedom to help or hurt others, so we make choices that can be judged in a moral framework.
But I don't like the concept of "fairness" in general. It feels resentful and subjective. I prefer trust, reason, generosity, compassion, inclusion, kindness, cooperation, love... :)
2008-11-01 [Veltzeh]: Gah, another topic off the tracks. Oh well. :P
Hm, I see I put "life" there as being unfair and not nature. Nature may be as it is, but people tend to make life in general unfair (insert a generic slums vs. high class comparison here).
I don't know what I should think about the concept of fairness. I don't like getting little while other people get nearly everything they want, and I don't like it when I get upset or unhappy about something that other people seemingly don't "care about" or think to acknowledge. What is the issue there and how can it be "fixed"?
And what do YOU think love is? I've tried to ask this from who knows how many people and everyone says the different thing and then try to vehemently defend their definitions or become nonchalant because it's different for everyone anyway. I've come to dislike that word a lot.
2008-11-02 [Nita]: Hmmm... I have come to believe that people make bad decisions when they are misinformed. After all, the human brain is not magic, so, as with any information processing system, it's garbage in, garbage out :P
Sadly, sometimes we become invested in misinformation (due to things like "God is the only good source of ethics" or "my worth is determined by my social status / obedience / intelligence" learned in childhood) and hold onto them when we shouldn't - and eventually someone gets hurt. The good news is that having a false picture of the world results in a kind of discomfort called cognitive dissonance when faced with reality, so we feel better when we finally stop clinging to misconceptions
There is some overlap in what everyone says, and that's close to the truth. Or, rather: it's impossible to describe exactly, but every description is like a tangent, and when you have enough of those, you get an idea of its actual shape. Mental states and feelings are always hard to define verbally, because they engage the non-verbal parts of our brains. Good poetry and prose can come close, though.
And, well, when you like someone or something, or doing something, a lot, and are happy just because this awesome person or thing exists in this world, that happiness is a bit of love :)
2008-11-02 [Veltzeh]: I agree. (Otherwise known as the conversation-k
Your definition of love is once again one that I haven't heard before, by the way. :P
2008-11-02 [Nita]: Cool :D Feel free to call me whenever you feel like being preached at again ;P
2008-11-03 [Nita]: Sorry, then :/
2008-11-03 [Veltzeh]: Well, you caused me to make this page a bit better (I think?) so it's okay. :P
2008-11-03 [Nita]: Yay x) *hugs*
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